If there's someone you like, read this.

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I know there's been a lot of negative threads lately, people have been saying that they're inferior and no one would ever want to date them but i'm here to tell you all, that you can do it. You CAN get a girlfriend, you CAN get laid, you CAN date your crush.

You wanna know the difference between people who succeed and people who fail at dating? People who succeed at finding someone don't sit around and complain about being single. They go out there and get more comfortable talking to the opposite sex, look up various dating articles and videos and put them into action, and despite being rejected they don't give up. Never give up on your dream to find someone! You fight till the very end!

If you like someone, then you don't sit around and wait for them to take all the action, ESPECIALLY if you're a guy. Are you going to spend your whole life saying no girl is ever going to want you and wait for a hot model to come walking into your front door? No! If you like someone, YOU have to do the initiating and be willing to go on a date and take a chance because you're going to eventually have to get over your nerves if you want to date. So why not now? Quit putting it off.

If you like someone, go talk to them and eventually ask for their number and to go out on a date.


JUST DO IT! MAKE YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE!

DO IT FOR YOUR FUTURE CHILDREN! DO IT BECAUSE YOU'RE A PERSON OF LOVE AND YOU DESERVE TO FIND SOMEONE TO CUDDLE WITH, AND NETFLIX AND CHILL WITH! #LIKEABOSS. DO IT BECAUSE YOU WILL BE AN INSPIRATION TO NERDS WORLDWIDE!


DO IT!! !! !! !




Then when you get laid and finally lose your virginity, thank Darkphantomx1.

When are you going to get started?

Good advice! I'm doing that, talking to my crush & I'm getting comfortable talking to him, I miss him.

People who have succeeded don't sit posting in Love and Dating forums all day. They are all loved up and preoccupied with other life thingies. I'd probably take the advice of someone who seldom posts and has a partner, or someone who has been in relationship/marriage for a very long time.

It goes without saying you should speak to whoever you like.

I'm only here more cuz I got banned until February 1st on body building forums.

You know what?! I'm tired of being a loser who never take the initiative to tell girls how I feel!

I'm going on Facebook right now and tell my crush who lives in Ohio now, that I have liked her for nearly a year. Nothing can stop my ego and self worth now!

Oh my god! My ego and self worth is totally ruined :'(


I messaged her and told her I liked her and she said "Who the hell are you?! lol." and "omg you stalker! I have a boyfriend and my daddy is a cop!" Then she blocked me.


I'm crying on the inside right now.


Even though I have only been rejected once, i'm just going to completely give up and not even attempt to talk to women anymore. I'd much rather hang out on forums all day complaining how much I suck with women than doing anything about it because it's totally easier just complaining!

At least you have the uncertainty out of your system now.

Oh man, that really sucks. Kudos for getting the bravery to tell her that, though. Hugs for you.

Oh man..but I'm proud of you.

At least you did it man.

I did the same thing to my crush last year. She had to leave school randomly out of nowhere and went to live with her sister in another state.

Turns out SHE LIKED ME BACK when she was at my school. We started talking and actually kind of became friends again and connected again but she only wanted to be friends which I was fine with. Though it seems she's not interested in talking anymore unfortunately...

Also, I thought she left because she wanted to, which made me feel sad because she basically didn't even say goodbye. Turns out she had to leave, even drop out of school, because she was kicked out of home.

So really just take a chance you'll never know what could have been or, at least, what you'll find out.

I'm beginning to think this is yet another sock puppet account invented to parody, belittle, and conveniently stereotype the autistic spectrum.

I don't really approach much females myself. I'm capable of, but only want to approach if I'm 100% sure things are mutual, and there's been a few situations where I get female attention, but couldn't do it (wasn't attracted to them, was in a hurry, with family, already had a gf at the time, etc.)

All I can really say is, try not to overthink it.

Unfortuntely I disagree with the advice 'the worst that could happen is they say no'. Not at all - you could be called out as a creep, if she really wants to hurt you she'll report you for harassment, etc.

The key is to relax, dont think too much of it, etc. even just getting a number really doesn't mean anywhere near as much as one might think because even some women who act interested might give a fake number, etc.

There's no reason to be nervous and even if you are, just approach anyway. Even if you cant say a single word, just stand there and TRY to. If she hints uncomfortable or 'no' behavior at all, then just say 'sorry' and walk away, leave it at that. And try not to be guilty if you made her feel uncomfortable. Yes it's wrong if you did creep her out but she gets it all the time. At least you have the audacity to apologize, try to be sincere about it,

But really I suggest only approaching females in real life if its mutual..

This is my way of doing things and it works. it makes the job half as easy. You dnt have to 'impress' a female or 'earn' her attention.

Granted, you can definitely still stuff things up, very very badly in fact, but it's a lot harder to.

Also, a lot of other users here are finally starting to see what I've been saying for a bit now - that a lot of your posts darkphantomx1 definitely shouldn't be taken seriously I can see why you would troll for fun since you got banned from that bodybuilding forum and spend almost all of your time here.

BTW, off-topic but, have you still been studying at a university/college anywhere this year?