I'm interested in a girl on the spectrum

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PhoenixFalcon
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15 Nov 2015, 11:08 pm

(To be clear, I'm also on the spectrum.)

There's a girl at this college club I go to for one hour once a week, and I'm sort of interested in her. So far, she seems to be comfortable around me, smiling at me a lot and occasionally even mirroring my movements.

I texted her two weeks ago asking if she would be interested in studying together outside of the club, but she hasn't responded, and I haven't seen her since.

I'm really not sure what to do, but she's really nice, and I do not want to mess this up if I haven't already. What should I do?


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16 Nov 2015, 3:25 am

Maybe she thought you as a friend but not a serious friend who could go further.


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16 Nov 2015, 8:50 am

Drawyer wrote:
Maybe she thought you as a friend but not a serious friend who could go further.


I've considered that possibility, but I tried to be as friendly and casual as possible about asking her, and I've considered other possibilities as well.


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