How can I improve my social prospects with women?

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29 Feb 2016, 11:11 pm

Hey, how can I improve my social prospects with future potential women. Also, how do I improve my social skills as to not "try too hard" at them (as in trying to be more socially skilled than necessary). And if you don't have very great social skills, is there any way to compensate?

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01 Mar 2016, 5:04 am

If it were something you could buy:

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I actually really don't know what to do about that though. Other than socialize more I guess? Maybe read some books on the subject actually, I'm pretty sure there are books like that.

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01 Mar 2016, 8:25 am

Don't stare at their breasts?

Joking aside don't really know as said just socialise more? If you have a problem with eye contact work on that I guess?

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01 Mar 2016, 9:47 am

If you want women to be interested in you, then you must first be interesting to women.

Find out what most women are interested in, and then become a source for it.

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01 Mar 2016, 2:18 pm

All I can say is that you have to do something to put you in a position to meet women first. That's my biggest problem. I never really leave my house so I never have the opportunity to socialize. It's not that I'm afraid to leave or too shy or anything like that, I just can't think of anything I need/want to do.

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01 Mar 2016, 6:31 pm

Treat girls like human beings.

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01 Mar 2016, 6:33 pm

Bataar wrote:

I feel that you have been spying on me somehow.

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01 Mar 2016, 6:35 pm

A job, a car, friends, haircut, hitting the gym

basically try to be an NT, improve on those deficits

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01 Mar 2016, 11:40 pm

Jacoby wrote:

A job, a car, friends, haircut, hitting the gym

basically try to be an NT, improve on those deficits

Easier said than done. Your average aspie would KILL for all those things. Don't forget to add actually being NT to the mix.

f**k, I used to be proud of being different, now I hate it. Where's my damn cure?

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01 Mar 2016, 11:46 pm

Jacoby wrote:

A job, a car, friends, haircut, hitting the gym

basically try to be an NT, improve on those deficits

Well all the NT people i know dress boring, and have worse hairstyle than me.. Many people call me narcist

what about Aspies who are meticulous about fashion and hairstyle, we look better and more cool than many typical dull NTs

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