I really like a girl but don't know what to do

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So I met her back in high school, and I had a crush on her before I even knew her. She is a junior now and I am in my first year of college. We were in the same group that had lunch together, but I never really talked to her or anyone else since I am so quiet. A couple of times though she did talk to me and one time even asked in a joking way if she could be my girlfriend. Right before I graduated I went back to school to pick up the cap and gown and for some reason she was there. She came up and hugged me and I didn't know what to do, it was like the last time I would ever see her but I didn't want to ask for her number. I would see her one last time though and this really made me like her a whole lot more. I decided to take someone else from the group out for dinner because she also graduated but had trouble getting through the year so I just wanted to congratulate her. Anyways after dinner we decided to go to the beach and she asked if it was alright to bring the girl that i like too, because she was bored that night. So we get to the beach and they both stripped down to bikinis, but me not knowing we were going to the beach didn't bring any other clothes so I just sat on a bench. After a while they came back from the ocean and the girl I like just comes up and hugs me again, but this time I obviously felt more of her, and I didn't think much of it at the time but looking back that was the best part of the night. So now here I am 7 months later still thinking about her and I just don't know what to do about this. Firstly I am really quiet and wouldn't know how to approach her, and additionally I don't know how I would contact her anyways. She doesn't have any social media, but we do have mutual friends. But I want to use them as a last resort, because I feel bad using them to hook up with her and also I don't really want them to know that I like her.

Try looking her up in the phonebook. How do you know she doesn't have ANY social media accounts Anywhere? Have you exhausted every social media site on the web? There's Facebook, AIM, Tumblr, Twitter, Instagram, Linkedin, Pinterest, Google Plus, Flickr, etc. The list goes on. Just type her name into google, and you might find something there. If all else fails, ask your friends anyway.

Add her on Facebook and talk to her bro. You only live once and you never know when you're going to die. You may not even live to see another year.

So go out there and talk to the girl you like and let her know how you feel because you're going to die in a car crash next month. (well at least pretend you are)

She does have a Facebook account, but it is inactive. Last activity was back in 2011, and one of the mutual friends recently uploaded a pic including the girl. I checked everyone who liked and commented on it, and didn't see her. Also she has an extremely common name but I did find a blog by her mom and she wrote some personal things about the girl, but nothing that would help me contact her. It does turn out she has an Instagram account and I do remember following her a few months ago hoping she would see, but it seems to be inactive as she posted consistently until 2 months ago she stopped. I don't know what I should tell her anyways. And about the mutual friends, I don't even know why I mentioned them really, cause I don't really talk to them anymore either. But there is something coming up in a month that I hope I can invite the friend to and prompt them to invite the girl too.