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16 Mar 2016, 11:27 pm

Today at school I was walking with my friend to class & I saw the girl I like there & I was looking her but then I just looked away. But then later we pass by again at the hallway & i turn around to look at her but she hide behind her friend. Then later when she came to class I was looking at her & she caught me looking so I just looked away. Then when she went over to talk to her friend I was looking at her but then I stopped. But later when i turn around I saw her at the back of the class & she was looking at me but then later she left class early?



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17 Mar 2016, 12:01 am

You'd think since this is the third time this exact same thing has happened, that she might behave a little differently this time. I fear the worst - you are caught in an infinite loop and you will spend the rest of your life looking and not looking at some girl you fancy. Sorry dude.



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17 Mar 2016, 3:46 am

yellowtamarin wrote:
You'd think since this is the third time this exact same thing has happened, that she might behave a little differently this time. I fear the worst - you are caught in an infinite loop and you will spend the rest of your life looking and not looking at some girl you fancy. Sorry dude.


Nothing wrong with that, and he likely will get his courage up at some point.



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17 Mar 2016, 5:42 am

You just gotta talk to this girl!

This kind of stuff didn't happen for me in high school!



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17 Mar 2016, 5:43 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
You just gotta talk to this girl!

This kind of stuff didn't happen for me in high school!


It did happen to me. :wink: And I didn't end up with only looking. Eventually, I got the courage to take it further.



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17 Mar 2016, 6:21 am

rdos wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
You'd think since this is the third time this exact same thing has happened, that she might behave a little differently this time. I fear the worst - you are caught in an infinite loop and you will spend the rest of your life looking and not looking at some girl you fancy. Sorry dude.


Nothing wrong with that, and he likely will get his courage up at some point.

No, this person has copy & pasted the exact same text three times on different days, thereby claiming each time that it happened "today".



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17 Mar 2016, 6:46 am

You don't wanna be "that guy who keeps looking at her weirdly but not saying anything" forever, OP.
Either pluck up the courage or redirect your focus onto a hobby or another girl.
I only advise this because I used to do the same, and school can be a horrible place when you build up a reputation or anything odd.


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17 Mar 2016, 7:04 am

TheSpectrum wrote:
You don't wanna be "that guy who keeps looking at her weirdly but not saying anything" forever, OP.


That depends on if she is reciprocating or not. If it is just a tease, then you are right. If she is genuinely interested and compatible, she won't let anybody know what is happening, and so you can safely continue the game as long as you want.



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17 Mar 2016, 7:07 am

yellowtamarin wrote:
rdos wrote:
yellowtamarin wrote:
You'd think since this is the third time this exact same thing has happened, that she might behave a little differently this time. I fear the worst - you are caught in an infinite loop and you will spend the rest of your life looking and not looking at some girl you fancy. Sorry dude.


Nothing wrong with that, and he likely will get his courage up at some point.

No, this person has copy & pasted the exact same text three times on different days, thereby claiming each time that it happened "today".


Ahh, didn't notice that. 8O

Still, I suppose that it might have happened once anyway. :mrgreen:



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17 Mar 2016, 8:06 am

Uhh you guys I think this is like a bot or a very lazy troll, I think the posted the exact same thing yesterday with a different title...plus they appear to have abandoned this thread, don't know if they ever popped back up again in the other one just like it.


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17 Mar 2016, 8:25 am

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Uhh you guys I think this is like a bot or a very lazy troll, I think the posted the exact same thing yesterday with a different title...plus they appear to have abandoned this thread, don't know if they ever popped back up again in the other one just like it.

Not everybody responds to their own threads or knows it to be forum etiquette to update people posting in it.
I think the guy just wants some validation and is obsessing over his crush, which is innocent high school behaviour.


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17 Mar 2016, 8:51 am

TheSpectrum wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
Uhh you guys I think this is like a bot or a very lazy troll, I think the posted the exact same thing yesterday with a different title...plus they appear to have abandoned this thread, don't know if they ever popped back up again in the other one just like it.

Not everybody responds to their own threads or knows it to be forum etiquette to update people posting in it.
I think the guy just wants some validation and is obsessing over his crush, which is innocent high school behaviour.


But there is another thread with the exact same content and a different title that they also never responded back to. Like they just ignored responses there and posted it again, which can be how bots/spammers behave...but I'll wait and see I suppose.


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17 Mar 2016, 8:54 am

Yeah I get what you're saying.
Guess we'll know if another thread appears.


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