I'm done

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I swear off love. Have I said that before? This time I mean it. I can't be bothered with all the stupid social nuances. I've had enough.

My goal is now to make myself a nice little niche to feel comfortable in. To make time for my friends and family and not to stress over anything remotely like a love life. I think I'll be happier for it in the long run.

Love is something that you never want to chase.

Best thing is to disguise yourself as a shrubbery and let it find you.

I did that when I was 18-19 years old...

Best. Decision. Ever.

Yep.
If you're done, then flip it over to the other side.

Same here.


After all.........why fall in love when there's better things to do!

I can't stop grinning at that picture.

Love doesn't have to be defined by the objectification or obsession of one person, you can have universal love. I think selfless love and having a good awareness of morality or karma is the highest form of love.

I'm lying. I don't want to be alone, but no one ever likes me. I'm fed up.

I am familiar with the feeling. As are many here.

When you say people don't like you, are you sure that is how they feel?

I tend to over think and analyse things others have said to me, whereas most of the time I have no clue what I'm saying because I'm babbling.
We tend to dwell within our own minds more than NTs, I think it's something that has a large effect on our communicative abilities.

Feel better soon.

I think it's a good idea not to actively seek love.

After I stopped actively seeking it, love started coming to me.

That has never worked for me. I'm now t exactly pro-active about other. I'm too shy. I thinks that's probably my biggest problem. Who wants a partner who never talks? I would if they'd at least get the conversation going. But no one makes that effort for me. I'm just not good enough and I never will be.

Does that make sense though, especially if you aren't mixing with new people in you day to day life?

I mean you have to at least not be complacent (like me).

Bu then again I hardly feel like the OP, and perhaps feel I should a little. It seem to be a biological motor.

Give yourself a big slap across the face, take a shot then run up and down the stairs.

I bet you feel better about things now.

It's better to be alone that to be in a shite relationship. Stop being so hard on yourself.

but.... what happened?

I would never give up on the IDEA of love.

It's more like I would put it on the "back burner," like other posters are saying.