For those of you who are virgins

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25 Jan 2016, 10:44 pm

Darkphantomx1 is back from the dead bros


For some reason I can't create polls but here is a great question.


For those of you who are virgins, when or what age do you think you will lose your virginity?


And for those of you debbie downers out there who say they will be a virgin for life, 75% of #Virgin4LifeCrew will actually lose their virginity in their lifetime. So suck it. Just not literally please...



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25 Jan 2016, 10:47 pm

I think it will be later this year, at age 20, when I go to a university and start trying online dating.



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25 Jan 2016, 10:51 pm

He has risen!




^ I don't know what the shite that was about, or why you made me think of it.

Hm. I'm going to guess....somewhere in the 22-25 range if ever. Definitely won't happen happen this year though.



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25 Jan 2016, 11:11 pm

Could be any time for me now. It's pretty obvious I was a late bloomer given the fact iv'e never really had a lot of experience with women in any way shape or form unless you count my mom and sister. Iv'e never had a girlfriend, been friends with a girl, not even a good acquaintance with a girl either, nor have I been on a date. I don't think i'll lose it to some random chick, I think it will be with my first girlfriend or friend or whatever.

I'm going to say when i'm 22. But hopefully it's this year. I definitely don't wanna be a virgin past 22 then that's weird.



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25 Jan 2016, 11:41 pm

darkphantomx1 wrote:
I'm going to say when i'm 22. But hopefully it's this year. I definitely don't wanna be a virgin past 22 then that's weird.


It's not that weird. After 25 it might become stigmatizing though and that's if you're wearing it on your sleeve. I figure if I reach 27 and am still alone, then I'll just dedicate my life to peace corp work or something else that might be considered dangerous to ones health. At that point I'll just stop caring about living a long and sedentary lifestyle.



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26 Jan 2016, 12:03 am

Feyokien wrote:
It's not that weird. After 25 it might become stigmatizing though


Nah you don't wanna be in your mid 20s and never had any experience with women. By age 24, it's safe to say that most people have had their first kiss, had a girlfriend, and lost their virginity.

And a lot of people will think it's weird, and no offence many will probably think something is wrong with you.

If I were you, i'd get some experience with women by the time you reach 22. Go on a date, try Tinder, experiment around and see what you like and dislike while you're still young. Because once you reach your mid 20s, there's hardly anyone who's inexperienced, and you're at a major disadvantage. And if you have experience, you will know what you like as well.



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26 Jan 2016, 12:06 am

Feyokien wrote:
darkphantomx1 wrote:
I'm going to say when i'm 22. But hopefully it's this year. I definitely don't wanna be a virgin past 22 then that's weird.


It's not that weird. After 25 it might become stigmatizing though and that's if you're wearing it on your sleeve. I figure if I reach 27 and am still alone, then I'll just dedicate my life to peace corp work or something else that might be considered dangerous to ones health. At that point I'll just stop caring about living a long and sedentary lifestyle.


I turn 28 next month :(



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26 Jan 2016, 12:11 am

8)


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26 Jan 2016, 12:18 am

darkphantomx1 wrote:
Feyokien wrote:
It's not that weird. After 25 it might become stigmatizing though


Nah you don't wanna be in your mid 20s and never had any experience with women. By age 24, it's safe to say that most people have had their first kiss, had a girlfriend, and lost their virginity.

And a lot of people will think it's weird, and no offence many will probably think something is wrong with you.

If I were you, i'd get some experience with women by the time you reach 22. Go on a date, try Tinder, experiment around and see what you like and dislike while you're still young. Because once you reach your mid 20s, there's hardly anyone who's inexperienced, and you're at a major disadvantage. And if you have experience, you will know what you like as well.


I don't have "no experience". I dated some. Had a couple of girls obsessed with me at one point or another. I tried tinder, it's worthless right now. I'm in my hometown of 80,000 people in Iowa. Not a lot of prospects, either too young or small town country girls who I'm not interested in. I'll see how it goes when I get back to the university I was attending. 15,000 people, all around my age. Starting a new program in the fall, new people to meet department wise as well. I know what I'm looking for in another person.



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26 Jan 2016, 12:22 am

Drawyer wrote:
8)

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26 Jan 2016, 12:23 am

sly279 wrote:
Feyokien wrote:
darkphantomx1 wrote:
I'm going to say when i'm 22. But hopefully it's this year. I definitely don't wanna be a virgin past 22 then that's weird.


It's not that weird. After 25 it might become stigmatizing though and that's if you're wearing it on your sleeve. I figure if I reach 27 and am still alone, then I'll just dedicate my life to peace corp work or something else that might be considered dangerous to ones health. At that point I'll just stop caring about living a long and sedentary lifestyle.


I turn 28 next month :(


Sly you're fine. Don't wear your virginity on your sleeve...I slightly recall someone maybe it was Kraft that said you're not actually still a virgin. You'll find someone if you keep looking. I've got some weird life plans.



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26 Jan 2016, 12:23 am

sly279 wrote:
Drawyer wrote:
8)

?


I think Drawyer might be a bit inebriated



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26 Jan 2016, 1:43 am

Sly is not a virgin.



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26 Jan 2016, 5:27 am

Feyokien wrote:
I don't have "no experience". I dated some. Had a couple of girls obsessed with me at one point or another. I tried tinder, it's worthless right now. I'm in my hometown of 80,000 people in Iowa. Not a lot of prospects, either too young or small town country girls who I'm not interested in. I'll see how it goes when I get back to the university I was attending. 15,000 people, all around my age. Starting a new program in the fall, new people to meet department wise as well. I know what I'm looking for in another person.


If you have your s**t together as much as you seem, I'd be surprised if it doesn't happen.


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26 Jan 2016, 6:22 am

Agreed. Feyokien doesn't even seem like he has Aspergers, that or he rarely speaks of his actual difficulties with it.

Really intelligent, and I assume hardworking/focused/determined guy. Both of you are and I said something positive in another thread that I think got buried...

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26 Jan 2016, 8:05 am

I bet Phantom is actually a really nice guy in real life. He might be "funning" us with his internet persona.