Why did his girlfriend behave this way towards me?

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Jamesy
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23 Jun 2016, 2:05 pm

I remember once I was at the bar and bumped into an old school buddy who was with his girlfriend. His girlfriend looked at at me (not smiling) and then turned to the side and folded her arms. From what I remember actually she looked quite afraid when she she glanced at me.

Why do you think she might behaved this way when she met me for the first time? I felt in a good mood that night but perhaps I was holding eye contact too long and it freaked her out I dunno :?

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23 Jun 2016, 6:25 pm

All I can say is: who knows?

I would just forget about it, if I were you. Move on to something else.



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23 Jun 2016, 7:00 pm

Why do you keep asking us why other people do things when we don't even know the people you're asking about?



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23 Jun 2016, 7:32 pm

Could be many reasons and I don't think anyone who hasn't observed the situation could tell for sure.
It could have been something about your appearance/posture/way of talking/looking at her or it could have been something she heard about you or about someone she mistook you for or she could have been impatient due to a situation you couldn't have been aware of or she could generally have an unfriendly attitude or tend to be uncomfortable around strangers or... or... or...
Forgetting about it and moving on is probably best. It doesn't seem like a terribly important incident.



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23 Jun 2016, 8:59 pm

Or it could be that she was in an especially bitchy mood that day. Maybe she just had an argument with somebody.

She wouldn't even know you existed, if that's the case.