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27 May 2005, 10:54 pm

The odds of an AS-AS relationship occuring seems rather low to me. First of all, Aspergians tend to have fewer relationships. Secondly, their are not many Aspergians out there so none are likely to meet many others.

How does it happen?!?!

Better luck at StarTrek conventions perhaps.

(not attacking StarTrek, just making a joke)



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27 May 2005, 11:10 pm

LowFreq50 wrote:
Better luck at StarTrek conventions perhaps.


Joke or not, it is probly true.

What you need to remember is she or he will
be in a wifi spots. Ooooh! on a Goooood! day you
will see many bachelors like myself behind
their computers. And also the female who is
perhaps seeking, but the pairing can be difficult
ineither the bachlelor's or her point of view.

The reason they hang at wifi spots is always
inconsistent. I do it so I am around people,
not so much to interact. and Godddd! Forbidddd!
there they are, and about 25-50 in years old.

The problem is getting one outside it's computer.
It's meaning they, and I are a strange lot. Deep
in thought, minimal in wanting to be hurt in
expressing the thought. Thus bachelor central
is no longer the laundrymat, or Star Trek
convention, but there is a large number there.
"HAVE WIFI FIND bachelor and computer
type female(potential dating material) to boot.

Hmmmmm? Fascinating Captain!
Ghosthunter

P.S...What I am trying to say you may find her
in this area of target. I realize you may not
get my wording so I hope this helps!



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28 May 2005, 2:02 am

Thanks for the tips, Ghosthunter!

Now for a reply by Lowfreq50!

What you said might be true in a large city, but I live in Gainesville . . . it's not very big and there's definitely no WIFI spots.

To me it's not a huge issue. I don't look for other Aspergians. All my friends are NT. I just think that if I was looking for an Aspergian female I would be out of luck.

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GH, I was wondering why you say "Hmmmm?" a lot. Do you say that when you talk or is it just an internet thing? I'm just curious because you're one of the most unique people here.

-Keith



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28 May 2005, 2:08 am

It is a way to express my dissective brain.
Silence and quotations are too generic.

Sincerely,
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28 May 2005, 2:18 am

Dissective, that's a good description!



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28 May 2005, 2:25 am

I say thankyou :D I make much effort to
play my strengths though I have to admit
my weaknesses need alot of work:D :) :roll:
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Hmmmm? How is it going as a manager?
I think that was how you once described
you job as? I hope your job is going well? :?:



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28 May 2005, 2:35 am

My job is going great! We recently had Quartery Inventory, and my department (grocery) was positive, which is awesome. I made money for the company so I'm getting a big bonus!! ! :D

The only bad part is having to bum rides to work because of car-theives.



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28 May 2005, 2:53 am

Steal the thiefs car and your worries are
over! Let the BUM suffer bumming from
you to the county probation officer.

Oooooh! the Guilt he will experience! :twisted: :twisted:

:D :wink: :twisted: Ghosthunter



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28 May 2005, 1:17 pm

as/as relationships - ya, probably impossible.

as asocial and inept as i am i only ever get into relationships with guys who are too obnoxious or domineering to notice.

it takes a certain amount of ignoring my social mis and non-cues to get to the point where i can ever relate shallowly/physically.

it would be impossible to hook up with someone like me because that guy wouldn't really be looking to hook up, either, and though they might want to wouldn't be able to effectuate any better than i would.

anyway, someone like me would be impossible for someone like me to get along with after the first couple weeks.



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28 May 2005, 2:04 pm

Not impossible. Both of my GFs have been AS...


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28 May 2005, 2:18 pm

The relationship can happen depends on circumstances.