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Kitty4670
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16 Apr 2016, 12:13 am

I look very young for my age. I'm wondering if a lot of men think my pictures are old, cuz my pictures don't look like my age. Do you people think men think pictures can be very old, cuz of your age? Some people on WP say that women have easier time getting dates than men, that is not true for me. I'm wondering if I'm not attractive enough or I'm not a lot of guys types.



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16 Apr 2016, 4:59 pm

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I look very young for my age. I'm wondering if a lot of men think my pictures are old, cuz my pictures don't look like my age.Do you people think men think pictures can be very old, cuz of your age?


Just explain it in your profile.



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16 Apr 2016, 5:36 pm

I did, they may think I'm lying like other women lie & can be fake. I wish they know that all women are not like that.



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17 Apr 2016, 1:38 pm

Take a photo of you holding a digital calendar that clearly shows the date, like a tablet for example.



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17 Apr 2016, 2:04 pm

You're very pretty, and you are speculating too much.

I wish I looked young like you!



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17 Apr 2016, 2:13 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Take a photo of you holding a digital calendar that clearly shows the date, like a tablet for example.


It’s not like that can’t be faked quite easily these days :P


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17 Apr 2016, 9:24 pm

I was little sad that alot of men wasn't attractive to me, I think they probably want blondes or redheads that are drop dead gorgeous. I'm ok now, some men have been messaging me if it were more men messaging me, then I would be a little overwhelmed. I am talking to a single dad I met today, before I didn't want a guy with kids, he got busy later & left, he seemed interested in me & wanting to get to me more, he asked me out for dinner. I hope he comes back on & talk to me more, there something about him that attract me to him & it is not all about looks.



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18 Apr 2016, 6:20 am

Spiderpig wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Take a photo of you holding a digital calendar that clearly shows the date, like a tablet for example.


It’s not like that can’t be faked quite easily these days :P


The easiest thing to do would to find a major construction site nd take a picture with it in the background. In my city this would not be a problem because I count 14 tower cranes just from my office. Not only would it prove you were local, but that the picture is obviously recent.

I knew online dating was full of dead profiles when I saw a woman standing in a park with a Dairy Queen in the background. That location closed out about 10 years prior.



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18 Apr 2016, 6:53 am

GiantHockeyFan wrote:
Spiderpig wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Take a photo of you holding a digital calendar that clearly shows the date, like a tablet for example.


It’s not like that can’t be faked quite easily these days :P


The easiest thing to do would to find a major construction site nd take a picture with it in the background. In my city this would not be a problem because I count 14 tower cranes just from my office. Not only would it prove you were local, but that the picture is obviously recent.

I knew online dating was full of dead profiles when I saw a woman standing in a park with a Dairy Queen in the background. That location closed out about 10 years prior.


What do you mean dead profiles? I'm talking to a man I met yesterday, he has a kid. He asked me for lunch as friends & he knows about my cerebral palsy, aspergers & psoriasis. But I hasn't told him yet about me never dated before. Should I wait to tell him I never did it?



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18 Apr 2016, 6:55 am

I would put dinosaurs in the background.



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18 Apr 2016, 6:56 am

Kitty4670 wrote:
GiantHockeyFan wrote:
Spiderpig wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Take a photo of you holding a digital calendar that clearly shows the date, like a tablet for example.


It’s not like that can’t be faked quite easily these days :P


The easiest thing to do would to find a major construction site nd take a picture with it in the background. In my city this would not be a problem because I count 14 tower cranes just from my office. Not only would it prove you were local, but that the picture is obviously recent.

I knew online dating was full of dead profiles when I saw a woman standing in a park with a Dairy Queen in the background. That location closed out about 10 years prior.


What do you mean dead profiles? I'm talking to a man I met yesterday, he has a kid. He asked me for lunch as friends & he knows about my cerebral palsy, aspergers & psoriasis. But I hasn't told him yet about me never dated before. Should I wait to tell him I never did it?



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18 Apr 2016, 8:57 am

You don't have to tell the man you've never dated.

Just talk about things you have in common. You'll be okay that way.



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19 Apr 2016, 6:28 am

Kitty4670 wrote:
What do you mean dead profiles? I'm talking to a man I met yesterday, he has a kid. He asked me for lunch as friends & he knows about my cerebral palsy, aspergers & psoriasis. But I hasn't told him yet about me never dated before. Should I wait to tell him I never did it?

I meant that they are people like me: found someone, got engaged and/or married, completely forgot about their dating profile and (obviously) aren't going to respond. It's obvious the DQ lady I mentioned previously was no longer dating to use such an clearly outdated picture.

kraftiekortie wrote:
You don't have to tell the man you've never dated.

Just talk about things you have in common. You'll be okay that way.

Just the same way I am almost 100% certain my last ex was a virgin/asexual. She never talked about it, I never asked and it was irrelevant. Truthfully, if I were single I would find it a relief to hear you didn't have that kind of baggage but I would probably eventually want to understand why so I would not be wasting my time with who potentially could be highly ambivalent about being in a relationship.

I wouldn't even worry about things in common. Just relax and if it's meant to be it will happen. My almost Wife and I had very little in common during our first date and our conversation wasn't exactly earth shattering but I sensed something special about her. She later confessed the same feeling and got engaged a few months later.



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20 Apr 2016, 7:21 am

Kitty4670 wrote:
Some people on WP say that women have easier time getting dates than men
Whoever says that is a fool.


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20 Apr 2016, 7:50 am

Even if they do have "less trouble" getting dates, it's at least as difficult for women as it is for men to maintain a harmonious relationship.



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21 Apr 2016, 6:24 pm

The only thing is that a lot of dating sites have profiles that are not premium profiles so they can't really do anything and give up and leave the site so essentially they seem like fake profiles. Or the site is made up of just pure fake profiles with the one in a that a lot of dating sites have profiles that are not premium profiles so they can't really do anything and give up and leave the site so essentially they seem like fake profiles. Or the site is made up of just pure fake profiles with the one in a million chainsaw you find someone real. I want to go to one of those pricey expensive side to eat Harmony or something like that and even today unless you're really good catch in the traditional sense you may not be desired by most people.