Kitty4670 wrote:
What do you mean dead profiles? I'm talking to a man I met yesterday, he has a kid. He asked me for lunch as friends & he knows about my cerebral palsy, aspergers & psoriasis. But I hasn't told him yet about me never dated before. Should I wait to tell him I never did it?
I meant that they are people like me: found someone, got engaged and/or married, completely forgot about their dating profile and (obviously) aren't going to respond. It's obvious the DQ lady I mentioned previously was no longer dating to use such an clearly outdated picture.
kraftiekortie wrote:
You don't have to tell the man you've never dated.
Just talk about things you have in common. You'll be okay that way.
Just the same way I am almost 100% certain my last ex was a virgin/asexual. She never talked about it, I never asked and it was irrelevant. Truthfully, if I were single I would find it a relief to hear you didn't have that kind of baggage but I would probably eventually want to understand why so I would not be wasting my time with who potentially could be highly ambivalent about being in a relationship.
I wouldn't even worry about things in common. Just relax and if it's meant to be it will happen. My almost Wife and I had very little in common during our first date and our conversation wasn't exactly earth shattering but I sensed something special about her. She later confessed the same feeling and got engaged a few months later.