Outrider wrote:
Yes, contact him again, heck, even be the one to ask HIM out to a date if you're that interested.
He was probably just 'flirting' but done it poorly.
If he's even slightly socially awkward in any other ways it might just be an honest mistake.
Be on the lookout though for other 'red flags'/any signs he makes you uncomfortable or he's not being totally honest with you. If you are unaware of what constitutes 'red flags' I'd google it and see if you can find any. Of course, everyone's definition is 'red flags' is subjective but it's up to you to decide whether or not certain traits are red flags/warnings or not.
If you are to meet him for a date ensure it's a very open and public space to ensure your safety. Of course, don't go home with him or anything like that on the first meeting and keep it strictly in the meetup location and/or if you're going to be mobile on the date stick to open, public areas.
Thanks for the reply. We've talked about getting together a couple of times, but he always seems to be busy and puts it off for another day... Which makes me wonder if he's interested. But he was always the one making contact, texting me every day. I only initiated once or twice the entire time we talked. I have his Facebook and #, and he seems to be a pretty decent guy (not a rapist at least).
I feel like maybe I didn't show enough interest on my part. He would flirt with me, call me cute, etc, and I always would say thanks and change the subject. I can't help it, I get nervous flirting... I think either he's a player OR he thinks I "just want to be friends". I figure if I text him and he keeps talking to me it's probably the latter, since I made it very clear I'm not looking for a hookup.
21 May 2016, 2:50 am
