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frozensoul
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20 May 2016, 4:14 am

I was wondering what everyone thought of the phenomenon of girls with AS daing NT. Do you think that this is right or should they stick to dating men with aspersers?



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20 May 2016, 5:34 am

Not this again :roll:

People are free to date whoever they want for whatever reasons. Get over it.


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20 May 2016, 9:52 am

There is a post on it

viewtopic.php?t=318529

Check it out :) it has a lot of interesting opinions.



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20 May 2016, 10:07 am

frozensoul wrote:
I was wondering what everyone thought of the phenomenon of girls with AS daing NT. Do you think that this is right or should they stick to dating men with aspersers?



It's morally wrong, we need to ensure they stick to their own kind and create copious legal penalties for any AS person caught having any kind of romantic relationship with an NT.

:roll: seriously what kind of question is this, of course its right for an AS girl to date an NT if she so chooses.


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20 May 2016, 4:45 pm

It sucks that they also like nts dislike aspie men but what can we do about it. Perhaps eventually aspie me. Will just die off or society Weill b come more accepting of us.

I don't know what nt men with as women work but as men with anyone doesn't work.

I'd like a nt woman but I probably get better with a as woman.

Have a pretty good idea why though



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20 May 2016, 6:12 pm

My 13 year old brother is technically NT (as in he is not diagnosed with any psychological conditions) but he is very unusual. I wouldn't call him a savant but he is very good at a lot of things and he has a lot of autistic traits although he doesn't seem disabled by any of them. His friends are mostly nerdy kids, and he gets along great with me. If he eventually married an aspie then I would not be surprised.

My point is, it kind of depends on the NT and aspie in question. Some AS/NT pairings will be a match made in heaven and some will be like the one relationship I had where we were totally incompatible, and same can be said for AS/AS and NT/NT pairings. Some people can't handle being with an aspie or a NT and that's OK, everyone is different and they can find what works for them.


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