So I've decided to get away from dating and relationships

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My early to mid twenties have had me deal with women who have used me for reasons of their own whether it's immigration or a lesbian pretending to be straight to have a baby and get free money for life.

I've mostly or 100% of time dated black women. I recently got back in the field and the look in their eyes and from what they told me their big interest, babies. Most black women grew up or have the mentality of a single mother mind set they have children get free money send the kid to a 24 hour day care and make more money by having another kid.

Most white girls tell pretty quickly there is something different with me and don't give me the time of day it seems the women I get with see me as a mark someone easy to get over on.

I am so tired of dating and relationships it's the same story over and over again.

Good idea, take a break from it all, take the time to better understand yourself and what you may have been doing wrong and what you can start doing and what it is that you really want. You don't have to feel completely bad about the past as I'm sure you probably had some fun memories even though they seem awful at this current time. You might have spent a lot of time settling for less than you deserve, but now you can start to change that when you feel ready.