How can I get a girlfriend again?

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K_Kelly
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20 Jun 2016, 8:32 am

The mystery is, how do I find a quality woman to date around my area? Online dating isn't as much my thing. I want to be getting out more and socializing and putting myself out there. I'm also having problems deciding what hobby I want to pursue. The struggles with Asperger's doesn't help either, and I've been barred from dating other people in my Aspie social group again.

Bonus, do you think I can get my cousin or someone else to set me up on a date with somebody if the other options don't work out?



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20 Jun 2016, 10:27 am

K_Kelly wrote:
The mystery is, how do I find a quality woman to date around my area? Online dating isn't as much my thing. I want to be getting out more and socializing and putting myself out there. I'm also having problems deciding what hobby I want to pursue. The struggles with Asperger's doesn't help either, and I've been barred from dating other people in my Aspie social group again.

Bonus, do you think I can get my cousin or someone else to set me up on a date with somebody if the other options don't work out?


May I ask why you were barred? Perhaps you could join other social groups to do with your interests. Like a local book club or something.

If you asked they may be able to set you up with sombody but it could be akward if it doesn't work out



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20 Jun 2016, 12:05 pm

Depends on what kind of woman you're looking for. Is having blonde hair and eyebrows the most important aspect?



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20 Jun 2016, 5:01 pm

Not necessarily, I like all "types" of women, but I have a special place in my heart for the blonde type.

I was barred because the people running the group say it should be a social place, not a place for romantic relationships.