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18 Jul 2016, 5:53 am

I have heard about casual affairs what exactly are those???

Do the two people go on dates, or they just indulge in sex and meet for sex.

Are there long drives, movies, outings, dinner or its just sex and sex and end of relationship once they bored


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18 Jul 2016, 6:51 am

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I had a arranged.marriage around 16 years back and never dated anytime

I have heard about casual affairs what exactly are those???

Do the two people go on dates, or they just indulge in sex and meet for sex.

Are there long drives, movies, outings, dinner or its just sex and sex and end of relationship once they bored

I'm sorry to hear that if it's true :(

To answer your question: an affair is anything you like with someone else without your husband knows about it. Often because they are unhappy in the actual situation or when they are happy but missing some adventure.

I can't support it somehow since it's 'wrong' in a certain way but at the other hand, from what you are saying, i can see why you would like to be involved in such kind of situation.

But i do hope that you keep yourself in safety. Keep in mind that you don't to things that might bring you in a dangerous position.


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18 Jul 2016, 6:53 am

It can be both. The dating kind, and the sex-only kind.



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18 Jul 2016, 7:15 am

Boo, time to cross the border!


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18 Jul 2016, 7:32 am

swfjvh wrote:
I'm sorry to hear that if it's true :(

To answer your question: an affair is anything you like with someone else without your husband knows about it. Often because they are unhappy in the actual situation or when they are happy but missing some adventure.

I can't support it somehow since it's 'wrong' in a certain way but at the other hand, from what you are saying, i can see why you would like to be involved in such kind of situation.

But i do hope that you keep yourself in safety. Keep in mind that you don't to things that might bring you in a dangerous position.

So what is casual affair???


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18 Jul 2016, 7:34 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
It can be both. The dating kind, and the sex-only kind.

So what if girl wants dating kind and guy wants sex only kind
Do they have to make it clear in beginning


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18 Jul 2016, 7:50 am

Can I apply?

What are your demands/needs?

(ps: is your husband armed?)



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18 Jul 2016, 7:54 am

Yeah...you have to make it known that you don't want sex if you don't want sex. Otherwise, the guy will think you want sex. Or he'll think you're obligated to give up your body to him for sex.

If you don't want sex, you shouldn't be subjected to sex.

A "casual affair" is a situation where there is (usually) a sexual relationship, but there is no commitment for both partners (both partners can have affairs with other people outside of THIS affair).



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18 Jul 2016, 1:19 pm

I tried to be nice to namaste and was all like "I don't want to talk to you loser."



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18 Jul 2016, 1:22 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Yeah...you have to make it known that you don't want sex if you don't want sex. Otherwise, the guy will think you want sex. Or he'll think you're obligated to give up your body to him for sex.

If you don't want sex, you shouldn't be subjected to sex.

A "casual affair" is a situation where there is (usually) a sexual relationship, but there is no commitment for both partners (both partners can have affairs with other people outside of THIS affair).

Have u tried it does it work, does it get nasty
It sounds rubbish


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18 Jul 2016, 1:35 pm

I think it usually turns out to be rubbish, though it might be fun for a while.

I've had "casual affairs" (though I wasn't in any marriage/commitment when I was in them). They didn't really make me feel that good.



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19 Jul 2016, 2:24 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
I think it usually turns out to be rubbish, though it might be fun for a while.

I've had "casual affairs" (though I wasn't in any marriage/commitment when I was in them). They didn't really make me feel that good.

exactly it sounds senseless to me

its more like the guy is in a win win situation

well if the female also only interested in sex then its ok for her

but overall it sounds crappy and ur rite in the end it wont make u feel good.


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19 Jul 2016, 2:27 pm

For me an affair would be an exciting adventure!

But If I wanna go for an affair with a married women, she has to provide me with 2 very important things:
- A high above the ground bed.
- The room has to be near a tree or fire escape for an emergency exist.