"You're just mad because she wouldn't have sex"

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Aaendi
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08 Jul 2016, 12:40 pm

Can people please stop using this strawman argument. Do you honestly think that if somebody wants to murder me, the first thing that will come to my mind is having sex with the murderer? You see how dumb that argument is?

Even when the antagonist is a man, this argument gets tossed around to belittle me. I honestly don't give a f**k if women reject going on a date or having sex with.

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08 Jul 2016, 1:02 pm

Hmm. Sure.

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08 Jul 2016, 2:13 pm

Why do you keep starting antagonistic threads like this? You're not proving any point you're claiming, you're just making yourself look worse.

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08 Jul 2016, 2:55 pm

Pretty sure such a phrase would mean someone thinks you're mad at someone for not having sex with you. Don't think it translates to being mad at someone trying to murder you for not having sex...I imagine in that case you'd be mad at them for trying to murder you.

Basically its not arguing that if someone wants to murder you the first thing that comes to mind is having sex with them...so your post doesn't really make sense.

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08 Jul 2016, 3:55 pm

Aaendi wrote:

This is rather incoherent. Have you considered talking to someone about your anger issues? It seems from your posts that you might have trouble dealing with anger in a healthy way.

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08 Jul 2016, 3:57 pm

What are you talking about?

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08 Jul 2016, 4:19 pm

I bet you're actually a cool guy in "real life."

I sense that you save your anger, etc for the Internet--to let out much that is bothering you, and which you can't express in "real life."

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08 Jul 2016, 4:48 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

I bet you're actually a cool guy in "real life."

I sense that you save your anger, etc for the Internet--to let out much that is bothering you, and which you can't express in "real life."

I think thats true of a lot of people on here.

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08 Jul 2016, 11:23 pm

I was told that by someone when I was upset about being rejected by someone else. I was wanting a relationship & not really interested in sex cuz I'm sort of on the asexuality spectrum. It p!ssed me off that people believed I was just wanting sex when I was wanting soo much more than that. I guess people say that cuz they would be upset about not being able to have sex so they cant relate to why someone would be upset about it for other reasons.

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08 Jul 2016, 11:25 pm

Yeah I'm on the "no idea what the f**k you just said" train...

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10 Jul 2016, 12:53 pm

That the sort of assumption statement that people make all the time. In this case based on the stereotype belief that the only thing men want out of a relationship or date is sex.

But good luck getting anyone to stop making assumptions. There are individual exceptions (and those are few) but I believe stereotypes still are the basic currency of thought today.

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11 Jul 2016, 8:33 am

Aaendi wrote:

Can people please stop using this strawman argument. Do you honestly think that if somebody wants to murder me, the first thing that will come to my mind is having sex with the murderer? You see how dumb that argument is? Even when the antagonist is a man, this argument gets tossed around to belittle me. I honestly don't give a f**k if women reject going on a date or having sex with.

Lacking context, this is apropos of nothing.

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11 Jul 2016, 8:40 am

I don't understand what this thread is about. There is no context.

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12 Jul 2016, 7:47 am

He is referring to the fact that some people think that a lamentation on a rejection = sense of entitlement.

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13 Jul 2016, 4:23 pm

Tim_Tex wrote:

He is referring to the fact that some people think that a lamentation on a rejection = sense of entitlement.

I guess kind of similar to when someone is having a rough time and someone says 'you just need to get laid' as if that will solve all their problems. Granted I think I read somewhere that sex can help relieve stress....but still.

Some people might be upset about rejection because now they wont get sex from that person...but to assume that is kind of assuming a lot about the person like that the sex was all they valued about the other person.

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