Asexuality

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djs7p
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03 Jul 2016, 2:42 pm

Hey everyone

Does anybody here define as asexual? I'm starting to think that I am.

I have pretty much no sexual urges or thoughts, and I'm ok with it. I sometimes think sex and relationships are more trouble then their worth

ArielsSong
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03 Jul 2016, 4:11 pm

I am. Very happily married, though.

AnonymousAnonymous
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03 Jul 2016, 4:38 pm

I am not asexual, but my sister, who is asexual, takes pride in being "ace."

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03 Jul 2016, 4:55 pm

I'm asexual, but in the strictest sense of the word - I don't experience sexual attraction. I have a libido and develop romantic feelings very easily, but I'm not very interested in sex.

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03 Jul 2016, 6:59 pm

I definitely define as one. I have no sexual drive whatsoever. I still want a companion and can find beauty in women but going celibate hasn't really affected me too much. I guess it's also normal for guys to w*k themselves but I don't. I would never go out of my way or comfort zone of trying to fine a date either. In fact, the thought of doing that makes me feel uncomfortable so I am content living a life of solitude.

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TheAP
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03 Jul 2016, 7:24 pm

I think I am asexual.

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03 Jul 2016, 9:39 pm

wow you are a lucky man!

u know the way i keep repeating certain parts from jennifer lopez music video and watching them again in "slow motion" to watch how her booty bouncing in slow motion is "pathetic" especially i drool and never blink while watching those sensitive/emotional things

i wish i was asexual

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04 Jul 2016, 1:00 am

I'm sort of on the asexuality spectrum. I don't really get sexual attraction except maybe secondary. I never really had a desire for sex with anyone except for my girlfriends.

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TheOtherMaidOfTarth
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03 Aug 2016, 3:39 am

I've never been in a relationship but I'm still pretty certain I'm asexual. I have no urges whatsoever, reading about it (in fiction) is more than a little nauseating if it's explicit, same with watching it on to or in movies, unless it's tastefully done (Game of Thrones I am /not/ looking at you) I'll just cringe. I'd like intimacy in a relationship but no sex. At all.

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marshall
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03 Aug 2016, 6:17 pm

I'm asexual, but I experience romantic attraction to women. Only things that make me "horny" are silly fetishes. I have no desire for sexual intercourse itself. I actually find it a bit disgusting. Luckily I found someone compatible. I never thought I would.

TheBrownienator
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03 Aug 2016, 9:03 pm

I have no sexual drive in the slightest which I originally thought was because I hadn't gone through puberty but now that I'm 100% sure that I'm either going through it or have gone through it I still have no sexual drive and no thoughts of ever having sex which I don't think is bad. It's also weird when all the guys and my 3 friends all talk about watching pornhub and stuff like that when I've never wanted to do anything like that.

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