Why am I so unattractive?

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I highly suspect that my overall perfection (looks, intelligence(?), talents, personality, etc.) makes me look unattractive to my target individuals. (I'm not kidding.)

How about you?

will you please show us a recent pic of yourself? [since you asked for opinion]
as for me, I know I am not really anybody's idea of mate material, I long ago had to come to terms with that and get on with my life.

...OMG..Nope, I won't.

Sorry that what I wrote is interpreted like what auntblabby said. However, this thread isn't for seeking opinion on why I'm unattractive. My intent was asking why you think you're unattractive to whoever you want to attract.

Anyway I'll add.

As I look for some reason intelligent people expect something very smart from me but I'm unbelievably silly and naive and there's nothing I can do about. And my siblings even feel very sad about the conflict between my appearance and reality. According to what they said, as soon as I open my mouth, all attraction I have suddenly disappears.

sorry, I misunderstood. [once again]. anyways, I can tell you that my body language is non-standard. my manner of speech has the usual odd aspie prosody. for a few scripted sentences i can hold it together to sound semi-normal, then it all falls apart. my manner of thinking is mostly non-linear stream-of-consciousness, and I tend to go off on tangents that prompt some more caring folk [like in my aspie group] to say "bring it back home." together, I give off the uncanny valley vibe that creeps many people out. plus my physiognomy is on the odd side and my dress is uber-casual. I have major trouble tolerating constricting clothing and since leaving the military, refuse to wear such.

And I act like Mr.Bean several times a day I'm not joking here.

there are far worse things than mr. bean. for proof, just look around you.

Mr Bean is quite a lovable character.

^ Yeah, I know what you mean, but in reality it could be a serious problem.

Well, there's one strike against your attractiveness.

^ Don't try to say "Arrogance"..as IRL I'm the opposite of that kind of people.

People don't like somebody that claims to be perfect. Anyone who can insist they are "perfection" and mean it, is a narcissist. You will find that line of thinking will very quickly turn people off of you. I guarantee you that if you truly believe you are perfect then you will be subconsciously giving off narcissistic vibes to people that they will pick up on.

Nobody finds you unattractive for being too perfect. That's ridiculous and you should feel bad for suggesting it.

But if he's real then he would be sexually invisible.

Dude, everybody knows what you wrote above including myself. Why don't you consider the original post as a hopeless person's out-of-mind raving plz.

So you're so unattractive because you're too attractive?

Nope.

Anyway did you read the post right above you?