Why being horny is so disgusting.

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I feel so disgusted by hornyness. And I found that it's so gross to associate certain individuals with sexual activities. Am I alone?

I hope you are not fantasizing about me.

Sigh

I just set my standard very high.

It's only disgusting when you turn on someone who turns you off.

^ Why?

I don't feel disgusted by feeling horny; I feel frustrated.

Do you mean you feel guilty that you have sexual thoughts about people when you're horny? Or is it *who* you are thinking about that disgusts you?

I understand why you would run out of stamina with this thread. I too, am very disgusted by horniness. Just now I had to clear my mind over and over again to get a certain someone out of my head. I don't want to think about her in that way, and especially not use her in my mind as a centerpiece for fantasy, because it would degrade her in my honest opinion. I want to cherish this person, and maybe meet her one day. She lives in Finland, and despite her limited English ability, we seem to click on virtually every issue and preference. All the more reason to be fed up with my horniness and lascivious moods, which seem to come without warning or cause. Even just seeing a picture of her, and my perverted brain starts a-spinning.

Don't worry if the other posters aren't getting you just yet, as they soon will grasp the full weight of what you are saying. It's a very big issue, and I've even met Aspies who claim to be utterly asexual because of this - when really, I think most will suspect they are covering something. I certainly would not blame an Aspie for covering up, and claiming to be asexual, even though it would take a serious chemical imbalance to actually make a person that way. I'm sure they exist, but it's gotta be rare. Any one have more thoughts on this? If not, then I am very interested in hearing more from you, BBCode, especially regarding any coping strategies you may have. Thank you so much for your honesty, and be certain that I will reciprocate.

I don't think being horny is disgusting. Desiring sex is a normal part of being human (or any other animal that reproduces sexually for that matter). It's an incentive for us to reproduce.