How feminine do I seem compared to the average girl?

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How feminine?
1 Very unfeminine 11%  11%  [ 1 ]
2 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
3 11%  11%  [ 1 ]
4 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
5 Somewhat more unfeminine 11%  11%  [ 1 ]
6 Average female 33%  33%  [ 3 ]
7 Somewhat more feminine 11%  11%  [ 1 ]
8 11%  11%  [ 1 ]
9 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
10 11%  11%  [ 1 ]
11 Very feminine 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Total votes : 9

DevilKisses
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22 Aug 2016, 11:56 am

By average girl, I mean the average girl walking down the street. Not men. I'm asking about my personality and appearance.


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22 Aug 2016, 1:59 pm

From your picture, you seem feminine---but not "overly" so.

As for personality, I don't know you in person--so I can't determine your personality.

Your online "personality" seems pretty "neutral" in the Femininity/Masculinity Continuum, with maybe a slight edge to the Feminine.



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22 Aug 2016, 2:09 pm

I wonder what the question even means, let alone being “overly” feminine. The only thing this phrase suggests to me is some mythical being with inhuman beauty and the ability to instantly seduce any heterosexual man who sees her, to the point of entirely taking control of his mind.


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22 Aug 2016, 2:40 pm

You know, some of us wouldn't invest any time to dig your posts in order to find your pictures, personally I don't remember how you look like at all nor I care much to search your pics.

So if you want faster rating then it makes sense to include a picture in the OP.



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22 Aug 2016, 2:48 pm

I'm not sure how feasible this is.

But I would suggest posting a picture of yourself, and telling us about yourself. Then perhaps give details of what you consider to be very feminine and not-at-all feminine. Context helps.

From what I've seen of you on here, you are like most members (and most humans) in that you seem middling/neutral on the gender spectrum.


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22 Aug 2016, 3:03 pm

Are you fishing for compliments?



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22 Aug 2016, 3:58 pm

How do you want to come across? Do you feel like you're sending the wrong signals?



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22 Aug 2016, 4:08 pm

We would have to hang with you in person to be able to answer the question of "how feminine/non you seem?".

So...we cant answer it. So its kinda pointless to ask us the question.



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22 Aug 2016, 6:10 pm

Yeah, you haven't really stood out either way in that department. It's kind of difficult to measure something as vague as "feminine" on a forum.



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22 Aug 2016, 9:09 pm

6?



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22 Aug 2016, 9:26 pm

Some people would consider the "girly girl" to be the height of femininity; the obsession with makeup, gossip, fashion, social drama, etcetera. In my mind that's a pretty tedious personality and look to have. Other people will undoubtedly have different views on what "feminine" means exactly, and their views of what's good and bad will differ too.

Is this related to that other post; you're worried that you're not being approached by men because you don't seem "feminine" enough?



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22 Aug 2016, 9:36 pm

Valuing gossip and social drama as feminine traits would be like valuing jealousy and backstabbing as masculine ones.

The OP has already said she is being approached by men (specifically, by “disgusting neckbeards” in her words); just not by the right ones. I think this is a pretty normal situation :nerdy:


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22 Aug 2016, 9:50 pm

Spiderpig wrote:
Valuing gossip and social drama as feminine traits would be like valuing jealousy and backstabbing as masculine ones.

The OP has already said she is being approached by men (specifically, by “disgusting neckbeards” in her words); just not by the right ones. I think this is a pretty normal situation :nerdy:


Well I don't know because "feminine" is extremely vague and can mean all sorts of things, especially when you put it on an intensity scale.



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22 Aug 2016, 11:37 pm

Personality.....I have no idea, don't know anything about you. How you look.... Again, no idea since you posted no pictures. Not sure how this poll is soposed to work 8O



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22 Aug 2016, 11:43 pm

I posted a picture here.


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23 Aug 2016, 7:17 am

I would certainly not mistake you for a boy.