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03 Sep 2016, 3:00 pm

Or rather, searching for a date on an international site, but looking for people nearby only. Whatever.

I'm seeing a handful of cool profiles, and I think they're getting lots of dates.

All these cool profiles really stand out, but how do I know that the non-cool ones, are actually really interesting people, who like me, find it really hard to compose a decent profile unless they spend hours at it?

Can't there be another way to this? I'm only able to discuss details via PM, cos there are people IRL who know me on here, who I don't want to see me on a dating site.

Or should I just stop being lazy now having just answered my own question?

I'm glad to have wasted your time everyone. Have a nice day.


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03 Sep 2016, 3:14 pm

You owe me 1 minute of wasted time.



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03 Sep 2016, 3:53 pm

I'm a bit confused here but... you could message them?

That said, I did tend to not pay attention to those who hadn't said much in their profile, presuming (possibly unfairly, I grant) this was because they had nothing to say.

I mean, I spent many, many hours on my profile. Hours and hours at first, and then a pretty constant refinement over months of useage. If you think I could be of help, feel free to PM me.


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Of course, it's probably quite a bit more complicated than that.

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03 Sep 2016, 4:21 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
You owe me 1 minute of wasted time.


You owe me 2.5 seconds.


Hopper wrote:
I'm a bit confused here but... you could message them?

That said, I did tend to not pay attention to those who hadn't said much in their profile, presuming (possibly unfairly, I grant) this was because they had nothing to say.

I mean, I spent many, many hours on my profile. Hours and hours at first, and then a pretty constant refinement over months of useage. If you think I could be of help, feel free to PM me.


Alright then, why not? I'll send you a PM with a link to my profile, and you can take a look and maybe have a go at typing some of it and then finish it off for me. :D

Honestly though, I would appreciate it if you could please help me out.


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03 Sep 2016, 4:44 pm

No problem - I'll see what I can do. I'll be on-off busy/afk for a few hours though, so you might not get much response til tomorrow.


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Of course, it's probably quite a bit more complicated than that.

You know sometimes, between the dames and the horses, I don't even know why I put my hat on.


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04 Sep 2016, 6:55 am

smudge wrote:
....I'll send you a PM with a link to my profile, and you can take a look ....
So ..your picture will be there? Show me..baby..I want to take a look!

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^ If you don't I'll cry.


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04 Sep 2016, 6:59 am

I realized that it could sound very wrong that I called you baby. Damn my low level of English.Image


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