Do most women find this look boring?

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Me having aspergers will probably make me undesirable to a big portion of women but on top of that I have also have dark brown hair and hazel eyes (my eyes are mix of green and brown but to most people they just look brown).

Do most women find dark hair and dark eyes boring on a guy? I read up this story on the Internet once about this young man with brown hair and brown eyes complaining that all different hair coloured women -blonde, black and red found his hair/eye colour combo boring.


Can I have your opinions on this? My mom told me 6 years ago "you don't need blonde and blue eyes just to attract girls" HA HA HA

I don't think it matters much.

Dark hair and dark eyes are attractive imo.

There's lots of looks that are attractive.

It's all in how you carry yourself.

Im sure there are women who have all sorts of hair/eye preferences just like men.

Not all men prefer blonde/blue. So not all women would either.

There are literally over 2 billion people who have brown eyes and dark hair, and they keep reproducing so I'm pretty sure that they are found attractive to someone.

I love dark hair and dark eyes. My college algebra professor had dark hair and almost black eyes and he was adorable! I have his picture on my computer as a screen saver. Very easy on the eyes.

I wouldn't mind it if a woman had my face as a screensaver

Hair colour and eye colour isn't a determining factor for many people when it comes to physical attributes. I think height and body shape play a greater role in physical attraction but even that is subjective to a certain extent.

I have dark hair and hazel eyes, my girlfriend has blonde hair and blue/green eyes. I think that opposite colours can attract each other in certain cases but I don't think it is the determining factor of attraction.

It's all about the hair and the clothes and the shoes dude. The average woman is a visual and superficial animal.

Dear OP, the color of your hair and eyes (and skin too) is REALLY REALLY VERY UNIMPORTANT.

The biggest things that make a person attractive to others are:
1) Hygiene: Self explanatory... be clean and smell nice, doesn't have to be cologne, but just don't smell like sweat or such.
2) Skin and beard: Having nice skin - very important, so cleaning your face every day and maybe using a skin creme if you have dry skin or a product against acne if you have many pimples helps! Also, if you don't shave off your beard, make sure it looks somewhat groomed and in shape because a patchy out of shape beard makes you appear unhygienic even it you aren't.
3) Hair: Also not much required, just shouldn't be greasy or unkempt, and if it's very dry just put some simple coconut oil on it, takes ten seconds.
4) Weight - sadly very overweight [obese] people are considered unattractive to the vast majority of the population... but if you're anything within the normal range you're fine. You don't have to look muscular or anything like that at all.
5) Style! I know this is very hard for many of us, but especially as a guy if you go to a store like H&M and just buy regular jeans, a pair of black or brown shoes, a simple white shirt and some sort of cardigan/hoodie you can't do anything wrong and you will look very stylish.

There are a lot of women who actually do prefer shorter men.