Bring on the weird: Snapchat edition

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Since I've moved on from the girl I hung out with this past weekend....now for my next story!

For the last two months I've had a bit of a Snapchat acquaintanceship with a girl from another part of my state who knows two people I went to college with. We send snaps from time to time. Anyways, just like Fight Club, some things you don't do on Snapchat, like screenshot. I screenshotted a slightly provocative picture of her and because Snapchat tells you when people screenshot, she got the notification and called me out on it. Out of embarrassment I deleted her, and no one behold, she messages me on Tinder (where we originally met) with "Yeah, re-add me please. Sorry I just have this thing about screrenshots! Hope you're day is getting better!" So I did and we've snapped a little since.

Here's my thing: I happen to really dig her. She's short (and for a guy who is too, I like that a lot), curvaceous, health conscious, artsy, sophisticated, loves to travel and to boot she's a dancer. But she's a little out of my league.

What I'm now curious is how she dug out our Tinder conversation from August to message me on there again and asked me to readd her on Snapchat.

Do you guys think she has at least a passing interest in me? Or is this a fluke? Girls as popular as her don't usually go out of their way to save a Snapchat "friend".

*I should add that when she's not away at college she lives about an hour and a half from me, and we've tossed around the idea of grabbing lunch over her winter break, which she likes.

It sounds to me that she's at least interested in you as a friend & she may be interested in more than that. I'll suggest that you discuss meeting her for lunch alittle more seriously & take things from there.

Jury's still out to lunch, no (pun?) intended? I finally had the guts to give her my number yesterday. We still Snapchatted, but she has yet to text me. She said that she feels bad when people delete her on social media. I still think there's a LITTLE more to the story, but I'm starting to be more convinced that it is what it is. Again, we'll have to see where this goes. Usually, I take the "I don't care/don't have anything to lose" attitude that I have recently (as I did with my last date, "my rebound). But with this girl, it's different. She's artsy. She's a foodie. She does yoga. She writes. She's cultured. She likes to travel.

Irony (sort of)- she took a screenshot of my number on Snapchat. I'm not calling her out on it.

What?? Oh noooooooooooo. LOL I'm embarrased now.

Yes, same goes for Snap replays and other stuff. On another note, I just want to keep going on dates, that's all.

She sound like a really great girl

I can understand that she doesn't like.l getting removed from social media, I also get a little sad from inside when I realize that someone that I usually barely know or have known for a while took the time to removw me as a friend but I have not once asked someone to re-add me, I would only do that if I really care about the person.

I think she likes you

I think so too, to some extent. We snapchat pretty much at least once a day. I'll send her one or two snaps, she'll read them, I won't hear a peep from her, and then I'll get something. Mostly food or what she's wearing.

It'd be nice if she followed me on Instagram though...

UPDATE: Two things I forgot to mention: first, this girl is in a sorority. Second, she sent me a pic of a paper she's doing on masturbation for a sexuality class. Sort of flattered she'd send something like that my way.