what to do from here???

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ok, i got a girl's number and i really like her. Where should i go from here? we have know each other for a long time, but never hung out and basically are aquaintances. She found me on myspace and she gave me her phone # and said for me to call her! my question is:
what should i say?
Should i invite her to my youth group tonight?
if she comes, what should i do with her?

also she gave it to me when i asked her! and her friend works with me and we are about the same, both aquaintances

If you are unsure if she likes you that way, ask her to hang out and don't mention anything about a date. Just call and say you want to see a movie and if she is free, or maybe she wants to grab a bite. If you don't come on too strong, there is no reason you can't start slow.

but when should i ask the question? she currently has a bf, and i was thinking of hanging out with mainly her and in about a month or 2, or after she dumps this boyfriend and another... i could go for it

Danger Will Robinson Danger Will Robinson!! !

I think you might have read into it too much if she has a b/f. I have girl’s numbers that doesn't necessarily mean they want to date you. I could be wrong. It is interesting she did it though myspace though. Then again I don't touch that place with a barge poll. Maybe she is extra friendly.

what question?
you say you are going to such and such a place, if she wants to join you, then you will be there.
You ain't askin' for nothin', you are allowing her to come into your reality. This is your attitude, not like some puppy dog waiting for a new master.

k(not kosmonauht)man I'd advise you not to. this girl has a boyfriend as you said, you're looking too much into it.

I'd be very wary.

If she has a boyfriend, i'd wait for major signals from her side.
That way, you know you're not crossing the line because she constantly relocates it.

Tell her to ditch the loser, and go with a real man

Kos. please. we want this guy to stay alive. not get mutilated by the guys friends for doing something like that.

i was going to do when she is single... so i wont die!

But I need to remind you K2 that don't get your hopes up on her becoming single anytime soon. And don't go after her as soon as she's single, it will show you're desperate.

LOL at the talks of risk and death. But yes, I sense a great danger in the Force young Will Robinson...from this situation, you must flee.

since when do used mixed metaphors from two movies?

I was trying to be creative!