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K_Kelly
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02 Jan 2017, 6:10 am

Hey, I have a couple girls in mind who I would like to invite to hang out with. Now my situation isn't that independent right now, and no girl as far as I know wants a guy who still depends on his folks.

But my counselor somehow tells me that I still have chances. I know it's true that I had a relationship before.

So is it still worth asking these girls to hang out places with them?



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02 Jan 2017, 6:29 am

Sure. Why not ask them?

But don't bug them if they say "no."



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02 Jan 2017, 6:32 am

K_Kelly wrote:
Hey, I have a couple girls in mind who I would like to invite to hang out with. Now my situation isn't that independent right now, and no girl as far as I know wants a guy who still depends on his folks.

But my counselor somehow tells me that I still have chances. I know it's true that I had a relationship before.

So is it still worth asking these girls to hang out places with them?

If you're able to handle a "no thanks", or the fact that they may only end up seeing you as a friend anyway, sure.



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02 Jan 2017, 9:20 am

It's in how you present the information; living at home is okay if you are saving up to get your own place or trying to get a job. Or, who knows, maybe one of the women will really like your parents.