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DrewLewis
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04 Jan 2017, 1:44 pm

I have the roughest time finding the right girl in my life. Everything from asking a girl out, being a gentleman, and dating site have all failed. I'm at the point that I'm sick of romance and finding love it's all B.S. I'm of giving up my hopes and being used on picked on people who has better love-life than me and always asking why I'm still single. And being single on Valentines Day is the worse. It makes feel worthless, a loser, a piece-of-crap etc... I HATE IT! I HATE IT, I HATE IT, I HAAAAAATE IT!! ! I wish that holiday never got created, I hate love and romance with the passion!! !! :evil:



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04 Jan 2017, 11:50 pm

When I was twenty eight, I felt the same way. But at age thirty three, I met the love of my life. At thirty five, I married her. Love and intimate relationships come late for us on the spectrum, but they still can come.


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05 Jan 2017, 3:09 am

It is not that I am missing out, I got over it decades ago when I realized that while I missing out all this wonderful love and sex, I am also missing out on all the pain of breakups and my kids that never came to be from bieng used by me my ex that never was and the divorce lawyers I never had to hire.

It is just that happy loving couples are so pushy about it many times

Damm, I relate a lot to that song


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05 Jan 2017, 4:55 am

Kraichgauer wrote:
When I was twenty eight, I felt the same way. But at age thirty three, I met the love of my life. At thirty five, I married her. Love and intimate relationships come late for us on the spectrum, but they still can come.


Agreed. The first Valentine's gift was a rose from my now husband when we first started dating.



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05 Jan 2017, 1:12 pm

MjrMajorMajor wrote:
Kraichgauer wrote:
When I was twenty eight, I felt the same way. But at age thirty three, I met the love of my life. At thirty five, I married her. Love and intimate relationships come late for us on the spectrum, but they still can come.


Agreed. The first Valentine's gift was a rose from my now husband when we first started dating.


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05 Jan 2017, 2:14 pm

Thank you for the helpful advice everyone. I just gets really frustrating sometimes.



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05 Jan 2017, 6:57 pm

DrewLewis wrote:
Thank you for the helpful advice everyone. I just gets really frustrating sometimes.


Been there, done that, but it can get better.


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10 Jan 2017, 1:38 pm

Never give up on love. It's better to wait for the right one, than to rush and end up with the wrong one. My boyfriend waiting 62 years to find love. Now, that's a long time.