She's moving away

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I met a really nice girl online and she wants to date me. Only problem is thatshe is going to move across the country in two years when she gets old enough to apply for her dream job. Should I even bother? What happens if we really fall in love and then she moves away? I feel like I should just stop things right here it'll hurt now but not as much as it would if I waited.

Unless you're willing to move across the country with her, I'd say don't do it. Maybe that's just me, though. If I got in a relationship, I'd want it to last. It wouldn't feel right to start dating someone knowing full well that we're just going to break up someday.

If you're both okay with a long distance relationship and if one or both of you would be willing to move if things got serious, I'd say go for it. If that's not an option, then it would be much better to let it go now.