Need advice please, basically my relationship has been a bit rocky to say the least, as pre Christmas we broke up and then made up and I've been feeling a little frustrated. She says she loves me a lot and yet every little thing that I apparently do wrong, that most would seem trivial she blows it out into the worst thing ever and it always happens after I thought we had a good time and I'm away from her. So If I saw her for a week, she had a great time, I did too ( She says this ), she'd then send me a message out of the blue that I'd done something wrong. ( There was a time when I worried that next phone call was going to be her complaining )
This week for example we had a nice time away and we said our byes on Sunday and she told me she loved me. I spoke to her on FB to say goodnight with kisses and she did the same, but it went down hill from there. Within moments of joining a Photo Facebook group, I posted a cool photo I had done and just because someone posted that the picture was great and welcome to the group xxx and I replied, " thanks x ". She said I had upset her! Basically by replying with a kiss and thanks this was the wrong thing to do and it showed in her eyes " interest ". At first I had no idea what she was on about, as this was after midnight and I had a nice weekend. But this happened! - The profile picture had symbols, there was nothing about the profile that posted to give her cause for concern and I had only just joined!
It seems every time I leave her, I get the third degree, yet people around me can't understand why she reacts in the way she does. She did say sorry the day after, but always says " You would feel the same way I would, you understand where I'm coming from?"
Which to me is a no, but not sure what to do, as she has done this just two days before Valentines when she knows I've been planning something special... I feel depressed ( I really don't want to Talk about it with her and ruin our Valentines, but probably too late?
13 Feb 2017, 3:22 pm
