Starting a friendship with a crush

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21 May 2007, 11:10 am

how do you start a friendship off good?
i'm starting over with the girl i have a major crush on
and i want to start our friendship off right

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21 May 2007, 11:20 am

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i'm starting over with the girl i have a major crush on

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friendship

We have a saying in my part of the world:

"You're f****d."

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21 May 2007, 11:25 am

okay but both of us have hurt each other in the past and we want things to work out this time.

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21 May 2007, 11:29 am

Metalman_009 wrote:

i'm starting over with the girl i have a major crush on

i never developed any crush on anybody

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21 May 2007, 11:58 am

Metalman_009 wrote:

okay but both of us have hurt each other in the past and we want things to work out this time.

Greetings M009. You're doing the right thing.

to all yah naysayers out there, let it be, trust me, a crush to a friendship is a great thing to have happen. It means that you both want the right thing in life.

trust me I know. my first girlfriend and I, broke up and it took about a year for us to become friends again, mainly because I still liked her, and it took several rounds of clincal therapy to help me get out of that. in the end we're still friends.

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21 May 2007, 12:00 pm

sounded wrote:

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i'm starting over with the girl i have a major crush on

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friendship

We have a saying in my part of the world:

"You're f****d."

we say that here too

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21 May 2007, 12:03 pm

Kosmonaut wrote:

we say that here too

maybe you two are from the same part of the world

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21 May 2007, 12:21 pm

tomamil wrote:

Kosmonaut wrote:

we say that here too

maybe you two are from the same part of the world

well that's a possibility.

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21 May 2007, 12:31 pm

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maybe you two are from the same part of the world

afaik, I am the only human resident of Wackyland. It's the penguins who use that phrase.

New info via IRC, however:

He's angling to eventually have a relationship with her, they're both in their mid teens.
I stand by my original advice but I'm usually wrong about everything.

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21 May 2007, 12:34 pm

sounded wrote:

afaik, I am the only human resident of Wackyland. It's the penguins who use that phrase.

so kosmonaut is maybe on of the penguins

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21 May 2007, 12:36 pm

tomamil wrote:

sounded wrote:

afaik, I am the only human resident of Wackyland. It's the penguins who use that phrase.

so kosmonaut is maybe on of the penguins

no, but i learned much from them.

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21 May 2007, 1:07 pm

Gamester wrote:

Metalman_009 wrote:

okay but both of us have hurt each other in the past and we want things to work out this time.

Agreed. Starting over is a good thing for both of you. Good luck.

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21 May 2007, 1:35 pm

Metalman_009 wrote:

how do you start a friendship off good?
i'm starting over with the girl i have a major crush on
and i want to start our friendship off right

I wouldn't know how to help you with this, however, I'm friends with a girl at work who I fell in love with for a brief period in the middle of last year, when I did ask her if she wanted to take things further she said "no" which hurt me a little but I remained friends with her as I liked her friendship and she is a very caring person like myself. That said, I have a feeling you will be able to be friends with the girl you have a crush on

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21 May 2007, 3:04 pm

sounded wrote:

We have a saying in my part of the world:

"You're f****d."

Not necessarily. I'm still friends with a girl despite her knowing full well how I feel about her, after all. As long as I don't wilfully mess things up, we'll be fine.

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21 May 2007, 3:07 pm

MrSinister wrote:

sounded wrote:

We have a saying in my part of the world:

"You're f****d."

Not necessarily. I'm still friends with a girl despite her knowing full well how I feel about her, after all. As long as I don't wilfully mess things up, we'll be fine.

O dear, you are in Lets Just Be Friends Zone

we have saying "you're f****d" or in this case, not :lol:

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21 May 2007, 3:31 pm

Kosmonaut wrote:

MrSinister wrote:

sounded wrote:

We have a saying in my part of the world:

"You're f****d."

Not necessarily. I'm still friends with a girl despite her knowing full well how I feel about her, after all. As long as I don't wilfully mess things up, we'll be fine.

O dear, you are in Lets Just Be Friends Zone

we have saying "you're f****" or in this case, not :lol:

Considering I was anticipating a hell of a lot worse when I told her how I felt, I think I've got off pretty well, to be honest. The fact that she still wants to hang out with me despite knowing how I feel while I'm around her is a testament to how much she cares for me.

Besides which, she's gay, so it's not like she could ever reciprocate anyway.

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