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Airtebar
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20 Apr 2017, 2:12 pm

So I have some questions, but before I ask let me inform you a bit on myself. I am a Neurotypical male. I suffer from separation anxiety and Ptsd (I had a few tragic losses of people real close to me all at once). That all being said my girlfriend is an AS, and I love her and her son more than the moon and stars. My girlfriend has some severe sensor problems that'll switch her mood in a flash. She has certain issues that make our relationship complex but I don't view it as difficult per say. She puts herself down. She at times thinks she is a terrible mother. And at times she finds it difficult to express her feelings. What I need is advice to make this relationship last. To make it flourish and for me to have a better understanding of her situation. I want to be able to put myself in her shoes. To see how she feels. What do I need to know to calm her when she has a meltdown. How to I calm the insecure thoughts. How can I help her? I'm craving to understand but what I look up online is generalized and says we can't have a thriving relationship. I refuse to believe that.



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alex
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20 Apr 2017, 2:39 pm

Your girlfriend is Australian?


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Airtebar
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20 Apr 2017, 5:09 pm

Aspergers I don't know the right abbreviations for this it's all new to me