Before V-Day arrives, I should probably point out that since you are already part of a relationship with an ASD, I «predict» that he will probably choose to spend time with you on that day some-how. You also need to keep in mind that, when you ask this sort of question on some kind of on-line forums or message-board, full of Aspie-oriented people, without being specific, you are likely to get answers from mostly single-Aspies.
Just pointing out something that you've missed in communication; the vast majority of Aspies in the world are going to be single, not in a relationship, without a partner or any partners, due to being mostly late-bloomers.
That is not to say that Aspies in relationships on these boards are non-existent, but they're the minority, and even in the «after-life realms» according to research-documentation, only a very small percentage of «spirits» ever participate in the activity called romantic-relationships. You might have gotten more «targeted» information/responses if the thread-title started out : «Question For Aspies With NT partners...»
Pizzapastacoke wrote:
NT girl here with an Aspie BF. We all know that Valentine's Day is fast-approaching. What do you guys think of Valentine's Day?
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