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MrMacPhisto
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28 May 2007, 10:25 am

A few months ago there was this girl I made friends with. What happened is we got close I was very open about myself about things like AS etc. She understood it. Infact I think she had it herself she does show some signs exept she can be very socialble one day another day she would want to sit on her own.

We got close we said things to each other then one day we expressed how we felt things seemed fine unitl a couple of weeks ago she dinied everything and told me to stay away and said things to other people about me.



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28 May 2007, 10:33 am

Maybe she got scared?
Maybe she met someone?

Just some guesses, hard to tell. She may not have AS, could be something else, could be the cause of her odd behavior.



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29 May 2007, 10:03 am

Girls are SOOOOOO weird like that. I have no idea why, I can't understand their behaviour at all. All I do know, is that when they start acting like that, it REALLY means they don't want to talk to you. Easiest to just let go.

This is from my personal experience, I'd like to hear other's experiences to see if there's at least a way of communicating with the girl to find out why they changed their mind. Mind you, some girls will come out and admit they don't like you, and want to stay friends.



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02 Jun 2007, 12:59 pm

Maybe she doesn't like you?
Maybe she already has a BF/GF and considers seeing you cheating?
Maybe she's playing you?

Just some guesses but I don't think she really likes you and knowing of your Aspergers wants to take advantage of you.


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02 Jun 2007, 2:07 pm

Listen guys she is alright now. Like I say she has problems she has something similar to AS she told me and anyway she isn't from Kent she only did it when she went home I will see her again in January



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02 Jun 2007, 6:30 pm

Mild bipolar?
I have a bipolar friend(same gender) who does that to random people.
She makes friends while on a high, invents reasons to hate them on a low, and ruins the friendship.


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