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15 May 2017, 10:40 pm

when there is absolutely no context for it?

it just happened for a second time with me



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15 May 2017, 11:11 pm

Maybe they're hoping you will reciprocate?


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15 May 2017, 11:14 pm

why would i? this is so weird, i feel really offended



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15 May 2017, 11:49 pm

ltcvnzl wrote:
why would i? this is so weird, i feel really offended


Why don't you reciprocate with a photo of something equally offensive?



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15 May 2017, 11:50 pm

I just ignore them



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15 May 2017, 11:55 pm

If his dick is in the pic you could send something like this:

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But yeah, ignoring is probably best.


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15 May 2017, 11:57 pm

but they really think i'll find it sexy or whatever? i was talking about cute dogs with a guy and then he send me a picture of his dick



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16 May 2017, 12:03 am

Maybe his dog is a sausage dog.


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16 May 2017, 12:18 am

HAHA

i mean, girls send nude photos as well, so it's not just guys.

any genitalia pic is not really sexy to me, and i am unsure whether it is actually intended to be mutually sexy or if they are just getting off on sending it.

a coworker was telling me the other day that he set his profile picture on a dating site to his forearm (which is an especially veiny). i think that is hilarious. if i were on a dating site and i realized it was his arm and not his penis as his profile picture i would definitely strike up a conversation.



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16 May 2017, 12:40 am

If you are curious; I can send you screenshots of women sending me their pics of boobs/vaginas.



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16 May 2017, 12:44 am

seaweed wrote:
HAHA

i mean, girls send nude photos as well, so it's not just guys.

any genitalia pic is not really sexy to me, and i am unsure whether it is actually intended to be mutually sexy or if they are just getting off on sending it.

a coworker was telling me the other day that he set his profile picture on a dating site to his forearm (which is an especially veiny). i think that is hilarious. if i were on a dating site and i realized it was his arm and not his penis as his profile picture i would definitely strike up a conversation.


Yeah, I don't understand these close up vagina pics.

Ladies, if you wanna send me nudes; at least send me full body shots.



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16 May 2017, 12:50 am

it's like a monster ready to engulf its prey. yum.



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16 May 2017, 1:00 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
If you are curious; I can send you screenshots of women sending me their pics of boobs/vaginas.



I didn't meant girls wouldn't do it, I just speak from my experience and a overall view that kind of confirm that is something a lot of girls went thru – many guys complain that they don't even get answers on online dating, it just doesn't make sense that they are getting nudes.

although, I used to be part of a facebook group that was an off-topic forum from a girl only art/drawing group and lots of girls used to post nudes, but it was a bit different and less aggressive.



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16 May 2017, 1:19 am

ltcvnzl wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
If you are curious; I can send you screenshots of women sending me their pics of boobs/vaginas.



I didn't meant girls wouldn't do it, I just speak from my experience and a overall view that kind of confirm that is something a lot of girls went thru – many guys complain that they don't even get answers on online dating, it just doesn't make sense that they are getting nudes.

although, I used to be part of a facebook group that was an off-topic forum from a girl only art/drawing group and lots of girls used to post nudes, but it was a bit different and less aggressive.


Especially in the lesbian online communities, girls post nudes all the time.

The ones I got weren't totally unsolicited to be honest, but sometimes unexpected :lol:. For example they ask me for a pic I may send them a non-sexual beach shirtless pic, they send me back a boobs selfie in bedroom, i am not complaining ; i am all for this equality :mrgreen: .



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16 May 2017, 1:23 am

but it's different if there is some context? even if it's mild, or at least people has some intimacy (for example, my ex-bf would often be naked at skype, it wasn't exactly sexual but we had intimacy for that) I'm not against nudity I just think it's aggressive if I'm talking about dogs and got a dick picture.



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16 May 2017, 1:44 am

^^ Flirty context usually.

From dogs talk to a dick pic.....interesting.