another reason or excuse?

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I don't know whether I should ever admit this feeling in the world outside of this forum but I feel I need to put it out there.I've never been in a relationship just a failed date here and there some time ago and I think I haven't pursued anyone in decades due to part of me thinking it would be selfish of me to ruin someone elses live with my crap, i'm not saying this looking for pity just trying to work out if maybe i am someone who cannot mentally achieve this goal and even trying to could put someone else at risk of me failing to do what it takes ,i know many folks would say just go for it but I think sometimes only you know how much of a problem you pose and this pursuit of my happiness is not a good thing,anyone else think this way?.

What prevents you from having good dates?

There are women out there who like intelligent guys, guys who like to talk about substantial things. And I've even known women who didn't mind it when I went "on and on." Sometimes, they even fell into a comfortable sleep when I went on and on about the 1381 Peasants' Rebellion, say. Another woman had an orgasm while we were discussing macroeconomics.

If you don't look like Quasimodo, you have at least a bit of a chance.