I wanted a call girl for my autistic son

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Ok. It's rare that I'll link something from the daily mail , but this came up my phone newsfeed thing.

She's basically promoting her new novel, but what she says about her son's feelings resonate with me.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4678298/amp/I-wanted-call-girl-teach-boy-sex-says-KATHY-LETTE.html Sent via @updayUK

That was actually quite an interesting read. I certainly don't blame the mother - I know what it's like to be that desperate, if from a somewhat different perspective. I had my first (and so far only) intimate contact with a woman under similar circumstances, only with the difference of me doing it by my own choice instead of my mother working as a "middle hand", if you will. And I don't even regret it. I merely seized an opportunity when it presented itself, and I would've regretted not seizing it a whole lot more.

Oh... my Mom would flip at this idea...

"What do you want for your birthday?"
"Can you get me a hooker mom?"
"...."

I think I would be WAY too uncomfortable to even think of that let alone ask it. however, I must admit, this Mom really understanding her child caring about it was quite endearing. not at all like my parents.

What she should have done instead was accompany her son to the strip club, pay a stripper to give him a lap dance. Imagine how awkward that would be for your mom to be there with you, haha.

and yes i'm joking...

A call girl would had crushed his confidence even more.

I think it is a pretty bad idea. I definitely would not have liked that as a youngster. Sex is something I would want to reserve for a girl I like a lot, and having it with a hooker would spoil it all. Better educate him that he should not care if he had sex or not, and train him to say "I'm not a virgin" whenever somebody asks about it.

that's... yeah.... that seems the more likely outcome...

Last edited by SwissPagan on 10 Jul 2017, 9:32 am, edited 1 time in total.

I've heard of fathers giving neurotypical boys a call girl for their birthday. It's sort of a stupid custom.

i'm not.i'm better off single alongside stimming

A hooker might be able to increase his confidence, but a hooker might have made him even more sexually frustrated now that he's gotten a taste of what sex is like. Now he's dropping 500 every month or two to go see hookers.

But had he of lost his virginity to his girlfriend or even a FWB, at least now he can have regular sex without spending huge amounts of money. He'd still spend some money though because pusssy is never free

i don't know if thats a really good move, he's not that old anyway and looks decent enough to find a better girl eventually
(my son met his gf at 28 yo and is still with her,) would being impatient (mom) and shallowish conforming be preferable to waiting, that depends highly on the circles in with you circle, but you would not want your mistakes be repeated blatantly

but i see a mother who hasn't taken the appropriate distance to a grown up son, mostly
and has nothing else to offer than nt-ness, even the article states its not appropriate in general, but in autism it (likely) is

and now mom's managing his sex(life?) too

deplorable

Somehow I'm inclined to believe you misread my post.

He might not even get an erection...

I mean imagine that you're about to have sex for the first time with a stranger, a hooker, while you're fully aware she's hired by your mom!

Does no one find the very idea a big turn off?

I've heard of it as a joke, like in sitcoms, but never met anyone whose dad actually did that.

First, Boo has a point about it being awkward and creepy to even have your mom involved in your first experience. Some things work in porn, that do NOT work in RL.

Even beyond that, I am inclined to believe that indulgence in shallow, casual, meaningless sexual experiences from the git-go, actually has an imprinting effect on the psyche, that may make it more difficult to form deep, lasting, committed long-term relationships later in life. I say this, based on my own experiences, as compared to those of people I have grown up observing, who have been much happier over the long haul.

Call me old-fashioned, but statistically, people in Western Societies had more stable, lifelong marriages back in the "repressed" "don't DO IT before marriage" period, prior to the 1960s "Free Love" and "Sexual Revolution" days, than they have enjoyed since.

Once you've had a whole box of Popsicles, it's hard to settle on just one flavor.