Men Without Bachelor's Degree Not Marriage Material
Let the debate begin......... This article says a lot of what I have been tooting my horn about.
https://www.nytimes.com/2017/09/25/upsh ... nt=6&pgtyp
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Darn, I flunked.
can't be bothered reading it.
i don't want to get married anyway.
i was the sole programmer for a company called "infohouse" which paid me handsomely.
i have my own house with nothing owing, and a great powerful car and enough money to do what i want.
so whatever....
i will never hitch myself to a woman because i don't like them enough.
(i certainly do not like men by the way).
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My theory on the future of marriage (distant future):
Then next it would be Master's degree, and next Doctorate degree, and next only men in top senior positions and so on- in other term, women's hypergamy will keep growing in correlation with inflation and life costs yet keeping refusing the househusband role (under the pretext that men are 'lazy' in house chores yet most mothers make no effort to train little sons for such tasks) until at some point in the future marriage will become a defacto privilege only for a minority of men - that would eventually lead to polygyny, like most our mammal cousins in nature.
The harem marriage, or at least harem unwed relationships, will return to your culture, polygyny (not polygamy) will return to humanity and become the norm - like in the ancient Asian civilizations when marriage was a privilege only for elite men there; genetic diversity will decrease significantly and more powerful idiots will be born and rule the world. Bravo humans!
Boo, are you still trying to find a house husband job? Is there even a degree in that?
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Darn, I flunked.
My reason for posting this article is because I believe the same : get an education, then job, then get married. I also believe it's a good idea to be married for a while before having kids.
All the guys can poo-poo the article and say it doesn't matter. However, the article points out that it's MEN who believe they should be the breadwinner and it's MEN who decide they shouldn't get married if they have a low paying job - per the article.
This article is also scientifically proven - which I thought would be something Aspies would believe more.
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It's because of WOMEN that MEN think like that. They keep hearing from WOMEN, how they wouldn't date men poorer than them.
Duh.
Then next it would be Master's degree, and next Doctorate degree, and next only men in top senior positions and so on- in other term, women's hypergamy will keep growing in correlation with inflation and life costs yet keeping refusing the househusband role (under the pretext that men are 'lazy' in house chores yet most mothers make no effort to train little sons for such tasks) until at some point in the future marriage will become a defacto privilege only for a minority of men - that would eventually lead to polygyny, like most our mammal cousins in nature.
The harem marriage, or at least harem unwed relationships, will return to your culture, polygyny (not polygamy) will return to humanity and become the norm - like in the ancient Asian civilizations when marriage was a privilege only for elite men there. Bravo humans!
i am sorry i have had 4x375 ml bottles of beer and am hazy of cognition, but i will reply.
so a "bachelors" degree is the certificate one needs to be a true bachelor.
what is a "bachelor" ? it is someone who engages in bacchanalian pastimes..
what is a "master", it is a person qualified as a master of their desired profession (whether or not they attain it).
and a "doctor" is someone who can make decisions based upon evidence and availability of remedies.
so who cares?
the woman? if she is chosen by me to live in my life, then she will keep the house tidy, unless she abrogates that task.
what if i make $100 million from an idea, but have no formal education?
i still hold the strings.
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Then next it would be Master's degree, and next Doctorate degree, and next only men in top senior positions and so on- in other term, women's hypergamy will keep growing in correlation with inflation and life costs yet keeping refusing the househusband role (under the pretext that men are 'lazy' in house chores yet most mothers make no effort to train little sons for such tasks) until at some point in the future marriage will become a defacto privilege only for a minority of men - that would eventually lead to polygyny, like most our mammal cousins in nature.
The harem marriage, or at least harem unwed relationships, will return to your culture, polygyny (not polygamy) will return to humanity and become the norm - like in the ancient Asian civilizations when marriage was a privilege only for elite men there. Bravo humans!
i am sorry i have had 4x375 ml bottles of beer and am hazy of cognition, but i will reply.
so a "bachelors" degree is the certificate one needs to be a true bachelor.
what is a "bachelor" ? it is someone who engages in bacchanalian pastimes..
what is a "master", it is a person qualified as a master of their desired profession (whether or not they attain it).
and a "doctor" is someone who can make decisions based upon evidence and availability of remedies.
so who cares?
the woman? if she is chosen by me to live in my life, then she will keep the house tidy, unless she abrogates that task.
what if i make $100 million from an idea, but have no formal education?
i still hold the strings.
You are right there, if someone makes loads of money without a formal education then so what - frankly most materials taken in formal educations are useless, except in very few majors like medical science.
However, I think they perceive a degree as potential for a good job, so it all goes down to money after all. I am sure that most wouldn't reject a rich man because he had no formal education.
England had one.
https://moremeansbetter.wordpress.com/2 ... ousewives/
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Darn, I flunked.
Then next it would be Master's degree, and next Doctorate degree, and next only men in top senior positions and so on- in other term, women's hypergamy will keep growing in correlation with inflation and life costs yet keeping refusing the househusband role (under the pretext that men are 'lazy' in house chores yet most mothers make no effort to train little sons for such tasks) until at some point in the future marriage will become a defacto privilege only for a minority of men - that would eventually lead to polygyny, like most our mammal cousins in nature.
The harem marriage, or at least harem unwed relationships, will return to your culture, polygyny (not polygamy) will return to humanity and become the norm - like in the ancient Asian civilizations when marriage was a privilege only for elite men there. Bravo humans!
i am sorry i have had 4x375 ml bottles of beer and am hazy of cognition, but i will reply.
so a "bachelors" degree is the certificate one needs to be a true bachelor.
what is a "bachelor" ? it is someone who engages in bacchanalian pastimes..
what is a "master", it is a person qualified as a master of their desired profession (whether or not they attain it).
and a "doctor" is someone who can make decisions based upon evidence and availability of remedies.
so who cares?
the woman? if she is chosen by me to live in my life, then she will keep the house tidy, unless she abrogates that task.
what if i make $100 million from an idea, but have no formal education?
i still hold the strings.
Yet, you're spending your time responding to this thread.
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Darn, I flunked.
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Wtf, so when they graduate to what kind of jobs they apply for?
Wtf, so when they graduate to what kind of jobs they apply for?
Dude, you asked if there have been any housewivery degrees and I found one - it just happened to be before the feminist movement.
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Darn, I flunked.
Then next it would be Master's degree, and next Doctorate degree, and next only men in top senior positions and so on- in other term, women's hypergamy will keep growing in correlation with inflation and life costs yet keeping refusing the househusband role (under the pretext that men are 'lazy' in house chores yet most mothers make no effort to train little sons for such tasks) until at some point in the future marriage will become a defacto privilege only for a minority of men - that would eventually lead to polygyny, like most our mammal cousins in nature.
The harem marriage, or at least harem unwed relationships, will return to your culture, polygyny (not polygamy) will return to humanity and become the norm - like in the ancient Asian civilizations when marriage was a privilege only for elite men there. Bravo humans!
i am sorry i have had 4x375 ml bottles of beer and am hazy of cognition, but i will reply.
so a "bachelors" degree is the certificate one needs to be a true bachelor.
what is a "bachelor" ? it is someone who engages in bacchanalian pastimes..
what is a "master", it is a person qualified as a master of their desired profession (whether or not they attain it).
and a "doctor" is someone who can make decisions based upon evidence and availability of remedies.
so who cares?
the woman? if she is chosen by me to live in my life, then she will keep the house tidy, unless she abrogates that task.
what if i make $100 million from an idea, but have no formal education?
i still hold the strings.
women are just attention sinks and they always want to be paid attention to, and i can not be bothered.
You are right there, if someone makes loads of money without a formal education then so what - frankly most materials taken in formal educations are useless, except in very few majors like medical science.
However, I think they perceive a degree as potential for a good job, so it all goes down to money after all. I am sure that most wouldn't reject a rich man because he had no formal education.
I disagree.
Example: I was watching Dr. Drew Rehab celebrity edition. There was this one guy on there who was rich beyond belief, BUT was in severe depression, had tried suicide multiple times and ended up on that show because he was hooked on drugs and alcohol. If money was all that mattered, why could he not find a relationship that would last?
If money was all that mattered, the above guy would have no problems and would have been married. You say that the degree doesn't matter, but it does. The article points out that people with education "think" differently and "plan" differently. They tend to plan out how they want their life to work instead of just living life and accepting what happens.
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Darn, I flunked.
I know loads of married blokes who don't have any sort of college or university education.
Level of education has never been a priority to me. I've never thought, he must have a degree or I won't even notice him.
Wealthiest guy I know out of my friends husbands used his natural intelligence and built up his own company. No qualifications.
Conversely I know a guy with a degree who is doing work you don't need a degree for.
I have family with no qualifications who earn more than me.
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