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sly279
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25 Oct 2017, 4:38 pm

It baffles me, why do you defend women yiu don’t know from far away areas? Yiu have no idea wh they are and they could very well act the way we say they do. I don’t lie they do. So why defend them? Why not just say they aren’t me I’m not that way and move on?

Defending horrible women yiu don’t know just drags out and causes arguments. I’m getting tired of fighting yiu all about superficial women in my area. I’m not saying most of yiu are superficial. Most of yiu aren’t, so why do you fight in the behalf of women yiu don’t even know 0.o

When a aspie woman comes here and says most the men in my are only wanted me for sex. I’m just like yup most men want sex and will use women for sex, but not all are that way. I don’t jump down their throats with nope no men are like that no men would do that, your just lying.

I don’t imagine yiu all enjoy Constantly fighting with us aspie me. Over superficial women. So I don’t get it. I wish we could just get along. Unite against said women and men rather the siding with them just cause they also women like you.
Those women don’t need defended and wouldn’t care that you’re defending them.



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25 Oct 2017, 4:54 pm

What do you mean when you say we defend all women? I think most of us are quick to call out bad behaviour from other women. We just don't like when generalizations are made about women as a whole.

And why do you spell "you" as "yiu"?



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25 Oct 2017, 5:03 pm

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What do you mean when you say we defend all women? I think most of us are quick to call out bad behaviour from other women. We just don't like when generalizations are made about women as a whole.

And why do you spell "you" as "yiu"?

I post about women in my area only to have women accuse me of lying here and say no women are that way. I only speak of the majority of women not as women as a whole. There’s always outliers. The majority of Humans are terrible male ore female.

I dont know a lot of women here seem to just want to ignore bad behavior of women and accuse us aspie men of lying. Most aspie women aren’t that way and don’t interact with women in romantic setting which is why you all don’t see it. Even liesbian have admitted it’s tough trying to date most women. Especially when most of the single women are super picky with high standards. The ones who didn’t aren’t single.

Just wish we didn’t have to fight, it makes me more depressed I don’t come here to be made to feel worse

I don’t. I type on an iPad. The keys are close together and Apple corrects stuff wrong. A lot of times I hit the space bar somewhow instead of n or m. Especially when typing fast.



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25 Oct 2017, 5:04 pm

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I post about women in my area only to have women accuse me of lying here and say no women are that way.

What do you say about the women in your area?



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25 Oct 2017, 5:10 pm

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I post about women in my area only to have women accuse me of lying here and say no women are that way.

What do you say about the women in your area?

The majority of single women here will only date men with good paying jobs, car, homes. Their life together, or real men as they call it. Then amongst those a majority also want a fit thin handsome guy. A minority of the first group don’t seem to care about the fit and thin, some want a fat guy, all want a attractive guy. Of the first minority who atleast doesn’t mention a guy needing that atleast half have asked about my job in the first few messages and that usually ends the conversation. A majority of that group though also wants a thin fit handsome guy.

So I’m basically looking for a needle in a hay stake while waiting to be struck by lighting if I want to find that tiny minority of single women who don’t care abiut s guys life being together or if he’s fat or ugly.

That’s it. That’s the reality of my area. Maybe it’s cause there 3;000 more guys then women so women much like on dating sites where there loads more men then women have become super picky i dont know. I’m just tired of being called a liar for telling what it’s like here.



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25 Oct 2017, 5:15 pm

You often don't specify "women in your area", but generalise it to "women".
That's where people get confused.
And I don't think I've ever seen anyone openly call you a liar.


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25 Oct 2017, 5:16 pm

I don’t.



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25 Oct 2017, 5:21 pm

sly279 wrote:
TheAP wrote:
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I post about women in my area only to have women accuse me of lying here and say no women are that way.

What do you say about the women in your area?

The majority of single women here will only date men with good paying jobs, car, homes. Their life together, or real men as they call it. Then amongst those a majority also want a fit thin handsome guy. A minority of the first group don’t seem to care about the fit and thin, some want a fat guy, all want a attractive guy. Of the first minority who atleast doesn’t mention a guy needing that atleast half have asked about my job in the first few messages and that usually ends the conversation. A majority of that group though also wants a thin fit handsome guy.

So I’m basically looking for a needle in a hay stake while waiting to be struck by lighting if I want to find that tiny minority of single women who don’t care abiut s guys life being together or if he’s fat or ugly.

That’s it. That’s the reality of my area. Maybe it’s cause there 3;000 more guys then women so women much like on dating sites where there loads more men then women have become super picky i dont know. I’m just tired of being called a liar for telling what it’s like here.


Stop chasing non-autistic women.

They are a complete waste of time and energy.



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25 Oct 2017, 5:22 pm

^Don't generalize all non-autistic women.



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25 Oct 2017, 5:30 pm

RikMayall wrote:
sly279 wrote:
TheAP wrote:
sly279 wrote:
I post about women in my area only to have women accuse me of lying here and say no women are that way.

What do you say about the women in your area?

The majority of single women here will only date men with good paying jobs, car, homes. Their life together, or real men as they call it. Then amongst those a majority also want a fit thin handsome guy. A minority of the first group don’t seem to care about the fit and thin, some want a fat guy, all want a attractive guy. Of the first minority who atleast doesn’t mention a guy needing that atleast half have asked about my job in the first few messages and that usually ends the conversation. A majority of that group though also wants a thin fit handsome guy.

So I’m basically looking for a needle in a hay stake while waiting to be struck by lighting if I want to find that tiny minority of single women who don’t care abiut s guys life being together or if he’s fat or ugly.

That’s it. That’s the reality of my area. Maybe it’s cause there 3;000 more guys then women so women much like on dating sites where there loads more men then women have become super picky i dont know. I’m just tired of being called a liar for telling what it’s like here.


Stop chasing non-autistic women.

They are a complete waste of time and energy.



That's a silly advice.

There are probably more pandas than aspie women in the world.



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25 Oct 2017, 5:34 pm

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^Don't generalize all non-autistic women.


Autistic men really are not their thing though.

We drive them crazy, in a bad way.



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25 Oct 2017, 5:34 pm

Raleigh wrote:
You often don't specify "women in your area", but generalise it to "women".
That's where people get confused.
And I don't think I've ever seen anyone openly call you a liar.

I’m not political correct. Most people don’t use ____ men/women, they just say men/women, nts don’t seem to struggle with it.

I won’t ever be able to remember to put in in my are, some, most, etc it’s too hard to do.

Hale boop has she even suggested I’m crazy. And anyone who says no women are like that are calling me a liar by default, cause I’m saying most are in my are, if no women are then I’d have to be lying, as both statements can’t be true.

I really don’t think I need to lead every post with most single women in my area. I don’t talk about Austrian women or European women much as I have no experience with them from living in the west coast of USA. I’ll leave such things to outrider and retro gaming and well I actually don’t onow of who’s male from Europe or uk. I will say from his posts outriders area doesn’t sound much better.

Again I’m now left to wonder if women here aren’t more superficial and picky because there a lot more men then women here, it’s annoying to hear them complain there no men when there’s literally atleast 3000more men then women in their dating range. How’d yiu feel if a female coworkers asked yiu where are rh good men?
How’d females hire like if a male asked them where’s all the women, like your not woman enough for them. Showed me how worthless my female coworkers saw me. Like i dont know if I’d wanted to date her but she didn’t even see me as eatable but wanted me to direct them to quality guys :( thanks a lot. :cry:

Further more in my mind it’s only be generalizing if I said ALL WOMEN



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25 Oct 2017, 5:36 pm

RikMayall wrote:
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^Don't generalize all non-autistic women.


Autistic men really are not their thing though.

We drive them crazy, in a bad way.

Most couples nt or nd drive each oth r crazy, seems to be part of love and relationships is your going anoy your spouse. Two people spending lots of time together and or living together are going anoy and fight with each other it’s unavoidable. I find women who say they want drama free funny, like good luck, life isn’t drama free not even for the super weslthy, life is mostly drama and struggle.



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25 Oct 2017, 5:42 pm

RikMayall wrote:
TheAP wrote:
^Don't generalize all non-autistic women.


Autistic men really are not their thing though.

We drive them crazy, in a bad way.

*repeats what I said*



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Further more in my mind it’s only be generalizing if I said ALL WOMEN


If I say, "Women are superficial", it means the same as "All women are superficial".


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25 Oct 2017, 5:45 pm

TheAP wrote:
RikMayall wrote:
TheAP wrote:
^Don't generalize all non-autistic women.


Autistic men really are not their thing though.

We drive them crazy, in a bad way.

*repeats what I said*


*repeats what you said to a back beat and drops mic*