Ladies and Gents: what are you physical standards?

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For one night stand, short term, long term / creator of your children.

Mine...

- Not fat or obese, anything between thin and up to 15lbs over healthy is acceptable.
- Not grossly ugly/deformed in the face. Just normal looks doesn't have to be "pretty"
- White/Asians/Latino/Certain Middle Easterners. Sorry to black African queens, I'm not into their features.
- Not hairy as in feint moustache or noticeable arm or butt crack hair.

Never: http://lermagazine.com/wp-content/uploa ... 702875.jpg
Never: http://wac.450f.edgecastcdn.net/80450F/ ... 0&a=t&q=89

Acceptable is up to 30% for me: https://qph.ec.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-b ... b69f4948-c

I consider these Normal Male standards. I just avoid whales, extreme butterfaces and certain racial types who's features don't arouse me.




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Ladies, please be brutally honest. Post pictures if you want. I think guys are more honest. Lets see.

And feminists, don't throw me under the bus.

Acceptable:

Not significantly under or overweight, has a normal, healthy face.

I don't mind mild deformities.

I think Penny Loko looks cute (Google her).

Basic hygiene

Ideal/the unrealistic dream: Thin and boney, small breast and small but firm butt, half black/half white or Indian, shorter than the average woman, average face, average hygiene.

*Penny LokER

Yeah I think you're weight ideas are normal sometime world.

I'm straight, but i find a lot of black women pretty. I do find black guys attractive. Any race may apply please.

I'm not really into James Corden though. Bit too chunky. Nor Dwayne the rock. I'm not into chunky muscles either.

5 foot 10 is my ideal height, but I'm not fussy. Too tall intimidates me. Calvin Harris is too tall for me.

If totally go out with Dev from Radio One. He's goofy and adorable.



But of course I adore Keanu Reeves above all others. Quirky looking and a bit too skinny, but what a guy.

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I don’t really consciously think about that stuff.

I was a little sceptical about my boyfriends nose-hair at first, but I don't notice that anymore.

I don't really know if I have any specific standards. The people I've had any kind of romantic or sexual relationships with have all been of different sizes, genders and ages (and with varying amount of body-hair).
I have a limit regarding too old or too young, but other than that... I don't think I've ever turned anyone down based on their looks.
Obviously I find some people more attractive than others, (and I know it sounds like a lie) but personality really does matter more.
After reading the other comments I realize that extreme deformities or obesity would probably be a turn-off. But I wouldn't know until I tried.

I don't know...she needs to be cute, I guess? If we're talking about numbers...7/10? I would say 8+/10 is better for hookups, but these girls tend to be a little shallow and boring in my experience, so not really good for relationships. Maybe because they've been told they were beautiful all their lives.

I know numbers are kinda...strange for this, but whatever.

As for specific features..., when I idealize her...: short black/brown/light brown hair, maybe glasses, small to medium breasts, a generous rear, thin, white or asian.

But this is more how I imagine it...my standards are not that high to be honest. Weight would be a dealbreaker though, overweight is really bad, and too underweight is also bad. ALTHOUGH, it depends on the person, but as a general rule...it's a dealbreaker for me.

Aside from the man being very overweight I can't think of anything about appearance that would be a complete deal breaker, but if we're talking about the ideal appearance of a partner then mine would be something like this:

- Hair longer than guys usually have, preferably black and not curly.
- Normal weight, some muscle but definitely not much.
- Pale skin (my skin is always very pale so that is something I'm used to seeing and... well... it would just feel right I guess.)
- Doesn't have a style that stands out a lot but unique enough so that I can tell him apart from other men despite my prosopagnosia.
- No tattoos or piercings.
- And no beard or mustaches.

I assume nonbinary folk are included in "Ladies and Gents"? My type is dark hair, sideburns and stubble, also, the more hairy the better! However, I'm not sure I have "physical standards", I'd be up for falling in love with anyone with a nice personality and similar interests to me (if I was single). No interest in one night stands anyway.

don't give it much thought.

i noticed most of those i have been attracted to have had brown hair but whether i deliberately search for it, or it's just a coincidence that brunettes have been nice to me, i wouldn't know.

very rarely have i been attracted to someone younger than me, but that inevitably means they won't find me interesting if i'm younger.

The picture you showed I’d say the 25%to 45% 25% is more sexually attractive I suppose but either 40% or the 45% would be appealing for relationships. Probably the 35% too.
See I think I’m weird cause I’d say the 25% woman is thin, 35-40% are average and the 45% is bit chubby. But I’m guessing most people would say the 15% is thin?
Perhaps that’s why I’m surprised to hear women at work who I think are small and thin say they don’t fit small shirts.

This lady you posted http://lermagazine.com/wp-content/uploa ... 702875.jpg
I’d date her. She looks pretty she’s definitely close to the size I wouldn’t find at all sexually attractive but she dressed in sweats and shoes it looks like she’s trying to lose wieght. We could lose weight together. But I’d date her as is and be ok if she didn’t lose weight and I’d prefer she not go to the 15% lol. She also dressed cutely the colors pair nicely.

Why do you say never? Most the women I dated were about that size. Except of the gay girl the one lady tried to pair me with. She was thin with pixie hair. She’d dress up in animal onesies she was super playful and cute. and the mom one was probably little above my thin standard.


Really besides not being too big I just want them to be pretty to me which most women are. I have preferences I suppose. I find any non natural hair color attractive. I like short hair, the above lady’s hair is pretty. I like the shortness. Pixie hair cuts are super cute especially if died colors. https://www.pinterest.com/pin/61220876159936630/
Lot of those are super cute. Black and pixie is too. Otherwise medium short length is nice. I like red hair too then black brown and lastly blonde. This one lady at work wears wig at work so she can keep her hair dyed cause her bf likes it. Is that wrong?
I’d feel bad if my gf dyed her hair solely for Me I’d prefer she do her hair as she likes it so would it be best to never share my preferences?

I do like Asians more, cause they usually small and cute. I like small and cute women. This one lady at work is super cute, I don’t tell her though. Otherwise race doesn’t matter though only a few black women I find attractive. India women are pretty. So I don’t just prefer whites so please no calling me racist.

I like women that dress cutely or who’d let me dress them cutely. Lol I see cute cloths all the time. And cute shoes I wish I had a gf to buy them for.