Just-Tom wrote:
What is he like, look wise? :/ I'd say I'm average, but then again I've never dated before. If writing personal messages are what I'm already doing then I don't see what else I can do.
Looks wise, slightly above average but leaning more to the average side.
It's very hard to get advice for this as "Be charismatic" is bad advice as it doesn't actually help anyone.
Some dating sites have a message board. Have you been on those? If you can portray yourself as awesome on an online community, women come to you. That's mainly what this guy did.
Plenty of fish has a forum. Why not try that? It will be like participating on WP, but all the people are single and looking. shooting fish in a barrel, right?
https://forums.plentyoffish.com/