Mean comment from a girl

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This drink girl handed out her handbags too some of my friends and she was about too give it too me and she then said "I don't trust you you're a weirdo " and then gave the bag too one one of my friends.

A lot of women in particular have not been very nice too me.

How can I change my image then?

I get this too. I think it depends on the age or maturity level of the women you are hanging around.

You do not need to change yourself to meet the expectations or acceptance of these women at all. If they are genuine, they will like you for the real you.
It sounds like to me that they are not worth your time if they disrespect you like this, because this can be quite hurtful to people like this regardless of whether she knows/understands your condition or not.

People who have been outcasted or have never fit in, are generally nicer. I know a few people through my partner (NT) who don't quite fit into a category, and they are nice people and accepting of others who are kind.

i have to wonder, why she was handing out her handbags to people?

don’t get it.

i wouldn’t get too worked up over one insignificant comment from a mean girl, but of this is a trend maybe it would do you good to examine how your body language (or any language) makes others feel and if theyre comfortable around you or not.

i find this is a lot easier in hindsight - i got many of those comments from guys and gals alike on my early teens. i would get too close to them and say gross/personal things that led me to deserve the rejection.

so...don’t get too close to strangers. if you’re unsure how someone will react to what you say it’s better off left unsaid.

outcasts are usually nicer to fellow outcasts and, sometimes, others in general.

if you meant to say she was drunk, then that commet probably didnt reflect how she really felt and it means nothing.
drunk people often say things they don’t mean.

People do and say really stupid things when they're drunk.
Perhaps she was hoping to get "lucky" with the dude.
Really sounds like not an ideal person to be around.
Kiprobhato has good answers for you.

Drunk and cruel, you can do better.

I keep trying to tell James to stop going to bars.

This sort of crap happens in bars all the time.

Not a great place for an Aspie.

It could be that that they are trying to reciprocate for the honest comments that Aspies typically make that come off as rude or insensitive. For instance, an Aspie might say that a girl is fat. A normal guy would know that he isn't suppose to say that.

10 years ago in college I was liked by quite a few women.

These days they pretend like I am invisible and think I am creepy. When I go out too bars guys are usually very friendly and complimentary too me but more often thab not women act standoffish and rude too me.

Same goes too females outside the bar scene as well at times.

what happened too you in those 10 years?

I would think a 28 year old unemployed town drifter is kind of weird too, but the appropriate response would be a firm "well screw you too b***h" and walk away. If she doesn't like you, then she she doesn't like you. Not everybody is going to. Forget about her and move on to the next one.

How do you afford bars?
I couldn’t and I have a part time job.

Yeah, a lot of people make mean comments. That will never change.