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26 Jan 2018, 11:20 am

I've watched this girl on youtube for a few years . she mainly talks about autism and other disabilities . recently she set up a site where viewers can message her about different topics etc. kinda like a therapist or agony aunt. what would be a good way to get to know her and eventually meet up .considering the limitations between london and wales



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26 Jan 2018, 2:53 pm

Ask her a few questions. Get into a discussion with her. If there's an easy flow to the conversation, and the flow is consistent for a week or so, ask her if she wouldn't mind having your personal email address.

If she says "yes," this would mean that she feels an affinity for you. People having an affinity for each other is what makes relationships go.



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26 Jan 2018, 3:10 pm

If you have a crush on her, then someone else may have a crush on her.



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26 Jan 2018, 6:26 pm

Never hurts to try.

If nothing actually "comes of it," he can still get into an interesting discussion with an interesting person.



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27 Jan 2018, 11:23 am

ZZZTired wrote:
If you have a crush on her, then someone else may have a crush on her.
98% likelihood she has a boyfriend/girlfriend unless she's either hideous or asexual.


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27 Jan 2018, 11:48 am

Never hurts to try.....



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27 Jan 2018, 9:16 pm

To be honest, as someone who used to make videos about aspergers, she probably won’t want to be contacted by people who watch her videos about wanting to date her. The answer is usually no, unless she asked in one of her videos about wanting guys to contact her personally.

I guess it doesn’t hurt to try, but I wouldn’t expect anything.