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Grue
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09 Mar 2018, 8:19 am

Hi everyone. I'll try to type through the tears.

My wife doesn't want to talk. She doesn't want to spend non-electronic time together. I don't know what to do.

They say that openness and communication are the key to a strong marriage but I put in all this effort trying to get her to put the goddamn phone down and talk to me. Anbout anything. Just talk to me. Pleas?>

And for her to say that she doesn't want to talk because "we've seen each other's posts and there's not much to talk about"

I'm stuck and I don't know what to do. I make all this effort and she does jack s**t



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09 Mar 2018, 8:39 am

How long has she refused to talk to you in person?



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09 Mar 2018, 9:26 am

Maybe the key to a strong marriage is for both parties to want it.


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