What's going on with a guy friend that won't hang out?

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I used to be quite close friends with a guy coworker , we'd chat online a bit and hang out every so often. I'm a bit confused now though lately because he don't message me on fb or text me anymore. I did get invited to a party for him, that I went to though. I was surprised when his dad told me he was hoping id show up since he's been acting distant. He did ask how I was and talked to me a little bit while I was at the party. I haven't hung out with him since then, but I've noticed he kind of looks at me a little bit when he thinks I ain't looking. He's also looked when he heard i went to the mall without him and last Thursday at work I turned around and caught him looking at me, he looked away after a second. I'm confused why he's acting like this since we used to hang out all the time.

It sounds to me like he's interested in you. Do you just want to be friends, or are you interested as well?

what gives you that idea? i am kind of interested in him though

This guy shows many of the hallmarks of shyness.

why you think that?

Like Kraftie said, he seems shy. Shy people will steal glances at you, then look away, when you look in their direction. It also sounds like he might be confused about your interest in him, as well.

Because he steals glances at you when he thinks you're not looking for his glances, or don't see his glances.

That's exactly what I do when I'm shy, and I'm attracted to a woman.

It was more like he was looking at my back last time I caught him and he looked away he looked me in the eyes before looking away wouldn't call that s**t

I’m going to be blunt: he might have liked your butt.

I like shapely butts myself.

Who doesn't? lol