30 Signs A Woman Isn't Interested In You

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I'm leaving Wrong Planet so this is my goodbye gift to all of you. I know lots of people with autism have trouble picking up subtle hints so this will help many of you out.

Here are 30 signs that a woman isn't romantically interested in you.



1. You send her a message and she doesn't even respond at all. (Pretty much every guy on online dating who isn't the reincarnation of a Greek God!)

2-3. You text her and it takes hours and hours and hours and hours and hours and hours and hours and hours and hours and hours and 3 minutes and 20 seconds to FINALLY respond! with a 1 worded reply...

4. She ghosts you in the middle of a texting conversation especially if you're asking a question.

5. She never even asks you questions when you two are texting.

6. Also when you two are texting, her replies are consistently short without much elaboration.

7. When you're texting her, does it feel like you're doing the majority of the talking, texting, and asking questions and she's just sitting there doing nothing? Kind of like a starfish in bed. Watch out for starfish texters!

8. Does she not open up your Snapchat texts even though she's posting stories or even viewing your stories? Yup not interested...

9. Does she open up your Snapchat texts and not even respond back? Definitely not interested...

10-11. Does she suffer from one of the following diseases?

- Flakeitus: A condition in which the sufferer agrees to go on a date with you only to cancel at the last minute because of being "too sick" or "too busy". Flakeitus is an epidemic among the female species so watch out!

-TooBusyitus: A condition in which a woman is always "too busy" to go on a date with you. She never wants to meet up because she is too busy with more important stuff such as netflixing on the couch, browsing Facebook, or signing up for Tinder with no intention of meeting up just seeing how many suckers try to hit her up.

12. She never wants to hangout with you alone. When you ask her to hangout, she will try to bring friends along or the group along.

13. You're talking to her and she mentions her boyfriend somewhere in the conversation.

14. She openly talks about guys she's interested in or who she's dating. This means you're not one of them.

15. She describes what she wants in a man and you're the opposite of that. For instance, when a woman says she likes tall buff guys but you're short af and you look like a horse jockey.

16. If there are other guys in the group, does she seem more interested in talking to them, only to mostly ignore you?

17. She never laughs at your jokes. In fact, she looks at you like you just dropped a nasty *** nuke fart.

18. When you talk to her, her eyes dart around the room and not directly at you. This means she's looking for a way to escape you AKA she's not interested.

19. You're talking to her and she doesn't stop what she's doing to give you her 100% attention.

20. She's listening to her headphones and doesn't take them off when you're talking to her.

21. She gives a reason to why she can't talk to you right now. She's coming up with excuses to leave a conversation.

22. You tell her you like her and she says she never saw you that way.

23. She talks about how she see's you as a friend or a brother.

23. She's always uncomfortable with physical contact

24. Her feet and torso are always pointed away from you.

25. If you're talking to her while she's walking, she won't stop and instead keep on going.

26. She never dresses nice. With people we like, we dress to impress.

27. She always seems distracted when you two are talking.

28. She always leaves when you're around as if trying to avoid you.

29. She never sends a text that's funny or flirty, only for school or business related assignments.

30. When you try to talk to her about her personal life, she always redirects the conversation back to school or business related inquiries.




Reminder: Please for the love of god, if a woman is giving signs that she's not interested, stop wasting your time and just move on to the next girl. If you continue to pursue a girl who's not interested, it will only end with pain and disappointment. Don't waste your time on people who are not going to give you the time.

I agree with the majority of this, but some of them aren't always true (like 12,16, and 29).



12. She never wants to hangout with you alone. When you ask her to hangout, she will try to bring friends along or the group along.

Some women will hang out with guys alone, and even do many things with them that romantic couples do. Also some women are shy, and get nervous about being alone with someone they are interested in.


16. If there are other guys in the group, does she seem more interested in talking to them, only to mostly ignore you?

Not every woman acts the same way towards someone she is interested in. Some women will ignore the person they are interested in, and talk to everyone else, instead.

29. She never sends a text that's funny or flirty, only for school or business related assignments.

Many women do, especially when it concerns a close "guy friend", that they believe isn't interested in them.

We should find vaccins for the Flakeitus and TooBusyitus before it’s too late for the human species!

We already have them. It’s called being a strong, successful and actually attractive man, and if they still flake on you or are too busy for you, forgetting them and finding a woman more worthy of your valuable time.

On the other hand, the signs you should focus on depend a lot on who you are. I’ve found best results by minding this one sign:
• She’s a woman. Leave her the hell alone before, in increasing order of severity, she notices you, she looks funny at you, she feels the need to defend herself from you or she attracts an alpha male’s attention to put you in your place.
Oh, I leave men alone, too, but I need to be less wary of accidentally approaching them, not only because I’m not sexually attracted to them, nor do they elicit the kind of desire for intimacy in me that women do, but also because it’s more intuitively obvious that things won’t end up well for me if I annoy them.

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s-see... because I-I literally posted "signs a woman isn't interested in you" 30 times.

Yes these are signs a woman is not interested in you (except 26) but they are also signals that a woman is not interested in you, in other words, she (assuming she's NT) will view these things as the polite way of saying ''I am not interested in you'' they are done intentionally to tell you they are not interested in you. They are not trying to trick you, they think they are being blatantly clear. Just wanted to make that point because your post sounded like you were arguing with someone (I could be wrong) or as if you were angry.

26, the not dressing up one, this only works if you are very familiar with a woman's wardrobe and therefor know what her newest or best item is. You can't just go by how dressed up she because one woman's dressed up look is scruffier than what another one would wear round the house. Some women put the full makeup on to put the dustbins out. I might brush my hair (assuming I can find my hairbrush) if I'm going somewhere important.

Sorry your leaving, hope you rethink.

This is a really good read, you should be a writer. Loved your reference to “flakeitis”.

Though this should more be “Signs another human is not interested in you” as it’s not exclusive to women.

Though these are pretty bang on indications a person doesn’t want to talk to you. Best thread in here.

Please don’t leave wrongplanet. More posts like this are what we need here.

But do you really still like her after she does that? Who wants someone who doesn't talk to them? Imagine you went out for dinner. What would you talk about? If the rapport is not there it's not there. Is it worth pursuing?

As someone who has been too anxious talk directly talk to someone I've fancied I look back and realise those weren't the right guys for me. Having met someone I'm comfortable talking to I'm like, oh, this is nice. Much prefer this to any of the men who I felt anxious around.

Thank you hurtloam, this is good to know.

I want someone that puts me first, and is comfortable talking to me, not someone that is too afraid to speak with me, and chooses to talk to others instead. There is actually a girl that is interested in me right now that does this. Judging by her behavior, and what little she has told me about herself, it seems like she has some mental health and emotional problems.