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23 May 2018, 1:08 pm

Girl's profile: "I like turtles."
Me: "Leonardo, Michaelangelo, Donatello, or Raphael?"
Her: "WTF?"
Me: "You said you like turtles. Who's your favorite?"
Her: "WTF are you talking about?"
Me: "Eww, I don't talk to people like you. Go away! Ewwww!"



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23 May 2018, 1:22 pm

I get it. She wasn't into Teenage Mutant Ninja turtles. She was probably just into real turtles.

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I liked the fact that you interacted with her. Perhaps though instead of having said, "Eww, I don't talk to people like you. Go away! Ewwww." you might have asked, "Hey, didn't you watch Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles?"

That might have continued the conversation.

It's just a thought.



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23 May 2018, 4:50 pm

What's this meant to be an example of? Two people being impolite to one another?



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23 May 2018, 5:04 pm

Issa joooooke



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23 May 2018, 5:33 pm

You're such a Shredder.



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23 May 2018, 6:18 pm

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23 May 2018, 6:38 pm

In the OP's case, it was an honest mistake and a mutual misunderstanding, albeit with a lot of rudeness involved. First off, the word "turtles" in the girl's profile wasn't capitalized, so it most likely referred to reptiles in a shell, rather than fictional crime fighters named after Renaissance artists. Also, TMNT are more popular among guys than among girls.

However, the OP's example isn't entirely benign. I've seen instances where women feign ignorance about a topic as a "socially-acceptable" way of messing with unattractive men. Because it gives them plausible deniability, that they actually didn't know something, as well as a cheap thrill of making someone jump through hoops. Consider my own example, when I was chatting with a girl from a dating site, who lived in my town and said she liked hiking.
Aspie1: what's your favorite place to go hiking?
Woman: anywhere
Aspie1: mine's around the big pond at [Park Name], the one with the lion sculptures at the entrance.
Woman: wheres that lol
Aspie1: it's at [Side Street] and [Side Street], 2 blocks east of [Well-known Major Street].
Woman: lol lol i dont know where that is lol
Aspie1: k
That's when I stopped talking to her. I wanted to try explaining again, but quickly realized she was just messing with me, when she claimed not to know [Well-known Major Street] or the lion sculptures. So I decided to beat her at her own game the best I could, by simply saying "k".

Oh, and the proper spelling is "Michelangelo". You're welcome! ;)



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21 Jun 2018, 9:51 am


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21 Jun 2018, 10:02 am

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Ha! Nice work :wink: :lol:



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21 Jun 2018, 1:52 pm

Aspie1 wrote:
In the OP's case, it was an honest mistake and a mutual misunderstanding, albeit with a lot of rudeness involved. First off, the word "turtles" in the girl's profile wasn't capitalized, so it most likely referred to reptiles in a shell, rather than fictional crime fighters named after Renaissance artists. Also, TMNT are more popular among guys than among girls.

A mutual misunderstanding, but if she's not a fan of TMNT she had no chance of understanding what he meant. He listed four names in response to something in her profile, not to something she previously said to him. Sure she could have googled those four names and would have found Ninja Turtles but she didn't even have the information that he was replying to the part in her profile where she mentioned turtles and therefore mightn't have been able to draw the connection. If she doesn't draw the connection the assumption that he's an internet troll would be quite reasonable.

As soon as he gave her the information that he is talking about turtles, she'd have known what he's talking about if she googled it but even so his attempt at a joke was pretty lame from the point of view of someone who's not interested in Ninja Turtles. It's at best an insider joke and most other people won't find it particularly funny.

Now, your example with the park and the street definitely is a different matter as it was part of an actual conversation and she had all the information she needed to know what you were talking about. Even if she wouldn't have know the park or the lion sculpture, that's a case where google could have helped her if it interested her at all.



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21 Jun 2018, 1:57 pm

^ Then she had a very very sad childhood.



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21 Jun 2018, 2:09 pm

Awkward convo made more awkward by someone not having watched TMNT.
It's okay, she doesn't know TMNT. Not wife material :skull:

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21 Jun 2018, 3:55 pm

Aspie1 wrote:
In the OP's case, it was an honest mistake and a mutual misunderstanding, albeit with a lot of rudeness involved. First off, the word "turtles" in the girl's profile wasn't capitalized, so it most likely referred to reptiles in a shell, rather than fictional crime fighters named after Renaissance artists. Also, TMNT are more popular among guys than among girls.

However, the OP's example isn't entirely benign. I've seen instances where women feign ignorance about a topic as a "socially-acceptable" way of messing with unattractive men. Because it gives them plausible deniability, that they actually didn't know something, as well as a cheap thrill of making someone jump through hoops. Consider my own example, when I was chatting with a girl from a dating site, who lived in my town and said she liked hiking.
Aspie1: what's your favorite place to go hiking?
Woman: anywhere
Aspie1: mine's around the big pond at [Park Name], the one with the lion sculptures at the entrance.
Woman: wheres that lol
Aspie1: it's at [Side Street] and [Side Street], 2 blocks east of [Well-known Major Street].
Woman: lol lol i dont know where that is lol
Aspie1: k
That's when I stopped talking to her. I wanted to try explaining again, but quickly realized she was just messing with me, when she claimed not to know [Well-known Major Street] or the lion sculptures. So I decided to beat her at her own game the best I could, by simply saying "k".

Oh, and the proper spelling is "Michelangelo". You're welcome! ;)

She might not have legitimate knew, she may be new to area or like me and not get out much, I’ve lived in my area my whole life’s but I hardly ever got to downtown so if someone started giving me directions based off downtown I’d be clueless



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21 Jun 2018, 4:37 pm

NorthWind wrote:
Now, your example with the park and the street definitely is a different matter as it was part of an actual conversation and she had all the information she needed to know what you were talking about. Even if she wouldn't have know the park or the lion sculpture, that's a case where google could have helped her if it interested her at all.

sly279 wrote:
She might not have legitimate knew, she may be new to area or like me and not get out much, I’ve lived in my area my whole life’s but I hardly ever got to downtown so if someone started giving me directions based off downtown I’d be clueless


I initially thought the same thing. But after she denied knowing where the park was ever after I described the location in more detail, I knew she was just messing with me. Especially with her excessive usage of "lol" (which really had no place there to begin with), lack of clarifying questions, and a blatant repeat of "I don't know". Mind you, it was in mid 2000's, when online dating was still somewhat useful for men. As opposed to today, when most men don't stand a chance.



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21 Jun 2018, 4:47 pm

Awesome! Truly and utterly awesome. If I got a message like that I would be over the moon.

Raphael by the way. Loyal as can be but always struggling with his inner demons, like me :mrgreen:

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I wanted to make that joke! :lol:


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21 Jun 2018, 4:49 pm

Now I want to eat pizza.