Lost interest in women after going to strip clubs

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Funny thing happened to me which I did not anticipate. I started going to strip clubs about theee years ago, and go about once or twice a month. This is a wild strip club that allows mutual touching and there many different girls working there.

Seeing and interacting with women there has desensitized me to women so much that I am not interested in trying to date anymore. Seeing and touching women in a desexualized atmosphere of the strip club, has de-sexualized that with regular women for me.

I have also been working night shifts for a log time and have gained a lot of fat. So my wstorone is down and my cortisol is up...

Anyone else find themselves in a unilateral situation?

You are gonna have erectile dysfuction if you continue this path; please stop and return to the normal sexuality.

Sorry, I can't relate. I've only gone to strip clubs maybe 3-4 times and it's been several decades. I felt sorry for the women and repulsed by the men who were leering. I didn't find the experiences titillating (no pun intended) in any way.

If you don't like the fact that it's ruining your ability to be attracted to women and that bothers you, don't you think you should stop?

I don't see the problem here. Not being attracted to women would sure make my life easier to tolerate.

Because things would get awkward in case you end up with someone at last.

It’s unlikely event. Hardly worth the years of emotional and sexual suffering and if it’s the right woman she wouldn’t care right? Much like if he was born asexual.some women prefer to have a sexless relationship. I’d consider taking drugs to suppress my sexual drive. I don’t need it and it is harmful to me emotionally and mentally.

Is it because wanting it but not getting it is torture and unbearably disappointing?

Well I suppose the OP could end up in that situation. He could always date an asexual then. It's not like there's a shortage of asexual women out there.

I think I know what you mean. I always has a type in women as a teenager - I liked quiet, studious, serious-minded and chaste women. As I've got older, I realised that this type of woman doesn't exist anymore. I've browsed through dating sites and passed through hundreds of women and not found one I found even remotely attractive. It's a shame, but I don't think I'll ever enter a romantic relationship - I want a woman with self-respect, and this seems to be too much to ask.