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20 Sep 2018, 10:42 pm

I have a crush on one of my physical therapists, i don’t want this :( :cry: :oops: :roll:



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21 Sep 2018, 7:28 am

You can find a new physical therapist :?



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21 Sep 2018, 9:10 am

awwwww.... you must be feeling a whole lot better, if you have the mental energy for a crush.

Plus - sounds like you're human!

Have a good day today, Kitty.


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21 Sep 2018, 2:06 pm

I’m mentally much better but I still can get depressed. I don’t want this crush, he is my physical therapy, isn’t that wrong? He tooo young anyway. Why he have to be so nice?



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21 Sep 2018, 9:15 pm

bomond19 wrote:
You can find a new physical therapist :?


I can’t ask for a different person, they will ask why, I don’t want to tell someone.



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27 Sep 2018, 6:20 am

Kitty4670 wrote:
bomond19 wrote:
You can find a new physical therapist :?


I can’t ask for a different person, they will ask why, I don’t want to tell someone.

Best way: just ask him in a funny way: 'Stop beeing so nice to me! In the end I get a deep crush on you - or do you want me having it?' Watch carefully how he reacts. After that you know how he thinks about you and whether he is worth your crush. May be he is a little bit into you too and therfore as nice as he is. If not he'll show it and it's easier for you to get over it then.


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28 Sep 2018, 2:55 pm

Perhaps there's something you're not telling us, but there's no reason why you can't simply avoid him; if you have to get a new therapist, you don't need to give the real reason, or any reason at all.



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28 Sep 2018, 7:50 pm

I hope you two get together somehow.

I think all people need love----even supposedly "disabled" people.



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29 Sep 2018, 11:59 pm

Prometheus18 wrote:
Perhaps there's something you're not telling us, but there's no reason why you can't simply avoid him; if you have to get a new therapist, you don't need to give the real reason, or any reason at all.


I cannot avoid him, he always in the room when I’m having physical therapy, I mostly work with him. I asked someone for another physical therapy, I’m having different therapists, but I still have to work with Matthew once a week. We were talking to each other about music, dancing & singing, we were getting along so good that why they put me with him before I got my crush on him. He was a friend, I really like that. This week things got very weird, I suddenly got uncomfortable around him, I can ignore him, but he still try to talk to me.



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30 Sep 2018, 12:02 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
I hope you two get together somehow.

I think all people need love----even supposedly "disabled" people.



That won’t happen, he has a girlfriend.



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30 Sep 2018, 7:01 am

I know that sucks.....

But I would still use him as an inspiration to get better and improve yourself.

And you two can still be friends.

Love not returned by the other person is one of the reasons we have great literature today.