Is asking awkward at this point?

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JP88
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16 May 2013, 11:27 pm

(Not sure if this goes exactly in the L&D section)

Well...I'm about to graduate with my Bachelor's degree and it is on Saturday. I also have rehearsal tomorrow night. If anyone remembers my previous post they would know that I have been having issues with girls and that I have met 2 girls that I really like, but both were engaged...at the tender age of 23 or younger!! !

Anyway I knew them from day 1 of orientation a couple years ago, we have shared many classes, and I have talked to both of them a bit, especially recently. I would really like to be friends with them as they are both really sweet, nice girls. I obviously was interested in both as a potential girlfriend, but obviously that won't be the case with both of them having fiancees.

So my question is that since I will most likely run into them tomorrow, would it be appropriate to ask for their numbers in the following way:
"So what is/are your number(s)...I would like to stay in touch with you (or you two)"

^Sound good?...would it be weird after not asking for over 2 years? Idk I'm still not good with this.

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aspiemike
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17 May 2013, 12:56 am

I see no harm in asking. however, you may have to settle on Facebook or e-mail contact to stay in touch. A chance of having a random guy's phone number may or may not cause jealousy issues in the fiances and that is a can of worms they may not want to open up.



Pabalebo
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17 May 2013, 1:40 am

not akward at all... i gradauate sunday n i live w/ gril who is not quite engaged but is prety much engaged n i going too stay in touch. with her.

granted i am extremley drunk at the mmento but i stil think my advice is god.

bro. like theres this other realy hot girl. and i am going to nyc w her where she livse this summer espcially if i get a job there in nyc with weather forcesating. and she is hot. and i lke here and shes cool. and i really durnk but shes cool bro i promise....

wooo college last thristy thursday o the semseter

! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !


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