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Kitty4670
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18 Oct 2018, 11:33 pm

I never going to find anyone. I want to fall in love. Do people find their girlfriend or boyfriend online? Where to they go to meet their partners?



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19 Oct 2018, 1:32 am

I mean it does happen. In my experience, online relationships tend to be hard, but doable. Oh and you can find someone really anywhere, all it takes is some patience and persistence.


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19 Oct 2018, 8:14 am

If only there were men around here who can't get dates.



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19 Oct 2018, 8:54 am

I know Kitty is not a bad-looking woman at all. And I am sure she can attract a man. There are many men who like thick hair on women.

I don't understand why you, Kitty, feel you can't "get anybody."



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19 Oct 2018, 4:42 pm

I tend to pretty much agree with Angelrho's approach to relationships and dating. he's made some extensive posts, which i wish i knew how to search for (is there a user post search? there must be...)

but the short version is, meet as many people as possible, invest in getting to know them, narrow down your pool, and hopefully you find an SO.

i admit it can be exhausting, and i tend to take a modified approach, with a smaller rotating pool of people, until i find someone i get on with.

anyways, best of luck, and take breaks as needed to recharge or recover from heartache :heart: (because it tends to happen, oof)


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19 Oct 2018, 5:04 pm

Fnord wrote:
If only there were men around here who can't get dates.
I like your sarcasm 8)
I met both my exes & current girlfriend on online forums. I met the ladder two on this one. I was single & looking for aLONG time thou & made LOTS of posts about it. Anyways... I think Kitty is a nice person who would be easy for the rite guy to get along with.


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20 Oct 2018, 11:48 pm

Fnord wrote:
If only there were men around here who can't get dates.


Me and those like me aren’t men though in the sense that we can’t do what the phrase “having a man in my life” implies.