Do Anglo-Saxon women know they can refuse?

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I found guys in Poland making fun on this video:
https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p06n231c

Well, I'm not into making fun of it but it made me wonder: Why did she have to follow the instructions from a random stranger? In her situation, I would most probably throw his note straight to a trash bin without reading if I wasn't interested in starting a conversation.
She speaks of a "cumulative effect" of such situations. I know, unwanted pick-up attempts are annoying, I do expirience them myself too, but most of the time you can just cut them short by frowning and saying "leave me alone!" if you don't like it... can't you? And the guys usually really leave you alone after this.
Are you, Anglo-Saxon women, pre-programmed by the culture to always smile nicely and never directly refuse to a man? Are you expected to be "nice" and avoid the slightest conflict even at the expense of yourselves?

They're just weird, magz, seriously.

I mean, I haven't ever imagined that the toilet seat's lid position would be a problem to anyone; I mean you just need to look at it before sitting if it's down then good, if it's up then you just lower it - easy, yet from this forum I learned that it seems to be a major "gender issue" (even a divorce reason) between men and women in the Anglo-Saxon/English speaking countries.
When I told some women of my country the story that some women there fall into the toilet hole because their men sometimes forget to put down the lid back - they all laughed and were like "are they blind??". True story.

Wish I wish I was brave enough to try picking up women

Ok now this woman definitely needs to smile.

Remember magz that the Ango-Saxon culture revolves around being polite instead of saying what you actually thing. Or as Pink Floydd put it, holding on in quiet desperation is the English way.

She's not Anglo-Saxon, she's Celt. That's a Scottish accent.

I don't look like her so I don't get as much attention (so not much chance for it to accumulate) but she's no more

obliged to smile constantly through life than anyone else. Also being miserable is the main ingredient of Scottish

culture. Seriously, they don't smile; unless something really awful is happening in England.

Falling in is pretty rare but I've had women tell me that men should always put the seat down so women won't have to put it down themselves. I don't see why it's any harder for them to put the seat down. I suggested to her that if men always raised the seat and women always lowered it, then men and women would end up moving the seat up or down an equal number of times. She didn't understand.

I've actually never encountered a girl insisting on lowering the seat but I once shared a room with a woman who insisted on closing the lid after every use. I thought it's a silly fancy but okay, if she feels more comfortable that way, it wasn't a big problem to do it.

And I actually did fall into a toiled once At home, when totally drunk. Not a pleasure but come on, I keep my toilet clean, it's something to laugh about after the first drunken wtf

^This is the BBC (local) they discus things affecting young people. I don't know the details but my guess would be

they asked women to tell them about incidences of being approached by strangers or something similar and this is

what this woman said. You wouldn't go to a newspaper with a story like this, it's not really a story. I think they are

using it as an example of something that will seem fine to some people but might upset others, basically to

encourage discussion.

I would have waited the ten seconds because I would have been intrigued, then I'd have been disappointed by the

message.